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I’m a cg, and today... I had to emotionally detach myself from my little.
We had only been talking for about a month and a half, so it feels silly to be this hurt by it, but she was also my first little, and we connected in just about every way. She was perfect to me.
She went through something that made her little space feel unsafe, and it completely destroyed our dynamic and relationship. It makes me so sad and angry because it wasn’t even my doing. Understandably, it made her distance herself, especially since we’re long distance, but she has also been saying a lot of mixed things.
She’ll say she wants to experience intimate things with me, like bottle feedings, but then she’ll act like we don’t have a dynamic anymore and basically imply that she wants me to move on. We also had a super intimate conversation a couple of nights ago, but then she texted me the next morning saying she was drunk.
It’s been very confusing and too much of an emotional roller coaster, so today I had to make the decision to choose myself and emotionally distance myself from her.
I can’t blame her for the things she says and does, either. I know she really likes me, but mental health is no joke, and I’m very proud of her for choosing herself. I know she’s in a bad place, and mental health struggles can make us do... not entirely ideal things, but I can’t keep hurting myself like this.
It stings to walk away, but it’ll hurt more if I stay.
Sad to see her go :(
I'm a cg and I posted in this channel a few days ago about how my little and I had to go no contact for a while due to something that happened while she was in little space (not with me, but with another little). To sum it up, we really connected and had been talking for a while before it happened. I gave her the space she needed and sent her a couple of texts after about a week just to let her know I miss her and care about her. As I expected, I received pretty dry responses, which is okay because I know mental health struggles can make you withdraw from the people you love. She told me I mean a lot to her but that she's just in a really bad place right now. Honestly, I couldn't be prouder of her for recognizing that and taking care of herself.
As you can probably imagine, as her daddy, I've been struggling with her being away. We were strictly online, but we talked a lot about meeting in person because the cities we live in are super easy to travel between. What happened kind of destroyed everything, and it hurt both of us.
Then last night... she kind of played with my feelings, and now I'm sitting with a lot of mixed emotions. Around 1 am, I woke up to a heart emoji from her, sent one back, and that seemed to spark a conversation. Things got really intimate. We slipped back into our dynamic, she regressed with me, and told me she's so attached to me. She said so many things that made me feel special, but then she'd turn around and say things that implied we don't have a dynamic anymore and that I should just find another little. By the end of the conversation, I was smiling from ear to ear because it made me feel like... no matter what she's going through, she's still my baby girl.
But then this morning, I got a text from her saying she was drunk, which really stung. Now she's acting kind of cold again while also saying she's worried about me and cares about me. I feel like a yo-yo... and not the fun kind.
Should I just let go?
Update: She just texted me that she misses me a lot and I burst into tears. Dammit. 😅
I think I just need a place to vent a little. I've had a really hard week and all I want to do at the end of the day is talk to my little and hear her voice. However, she's currently struggling with her mental health so she took a week to go to a clinic and take care of herself. I'm so proud of her for doing that and I care about her wellbeing more than anything, but we also can't talk at all while she's there. I also want to be a strong daddy for her, so she feels like she can lean on me when she gets out. I miss her little voice and giggle the most on hard days :(
My girlfriend recently received some extremely alarming text messages from a random number. I’m not going to include screenshots because the texts are extremely vulgar, but this is essentially how it went:
Him: Hello?
Her: Hi, who is this?
Him: You’re so hot
Her: ? I have a bf
Him: I can r*** you while he watches. Are you a virgin?
Him: You would make a pretty corpse
There were also a few other disturbing messages.
Being as protective as I am, I went into panic mode and started doing reverse phone number searches. The area code shows another state, but people move, and we have no idea whether he knows who she is, how he knows what she looks like, or whether he actually does at all.
Any advice would be extremely helpful. All of the reverse number searches are coming up with no information except the carrier. Please help. My lady feels extremely unsafe right now.