u/Your_awkward_friend

Baby not latching and doctors are against bottle feeding the breast milk , they are telling to feed from syringe or paladai , but its so difficult , we spend one hour feeding through syringe and all.
The baby is just 5 days old.
She latches occasionally.
She has lost the birth weight on higher side so doctor told to formula feed also in between , its so difficul to first spend 15 mins latching the baby , then if she doesnt latch , we spend 1 hour to feed expressed breast milk , then more to formula feed.

Is there anyone who used bottle intial days and didnt find it difficult for further journey or breast latch ?

Please done suggest spectra and medela , i know these are the best , but hella expensive.
Kindly suggest something under 5-6k , even if its for single breast.
I have ready many reviews of luvlap , roboson , r for rabbit , but unable to decide as these have bad reviews more.
Also promom is getting much promotions through instagram influencers , so i dont trust it without getting a review from a real person.

Please suggest, i want to feed in combination , through direct breast feeding as wll as through pumped also.

M 36 weeks pregnant , and m already scared of loosing my mind after baby. Recovering physically and mentally , also taking care of a human being sacres me.
In india formula feeding is discouraged as there are no good formulas , unlike FDA strict guidelines.
Are there other mothers thinking like this ?
Did anyone of u decided not to breast feed for your mental health and well being ?

Please share , m dying here , terrified of being judged.

I am 7 months pregnant , and i need comfortable sandles which has loop around the ankle under 3000/-

Kindly help with the links , so that i can order , i dont have the energy to go offline shopping.
Links would be best.

Ps: comfort meaning , the sandles sole should be comfotable , and tight around my foot so that i dont , i just fell in one of my flats which were open toe without backside support.

What the fu*kkkkk ?
There should be protocol to kick out people who are nuisance in the movie theatre.
I sweaf i just wanted to punch the guys sitting in front of me .
Like is there no courtesy left ?

I also talk between movie but i whisper , but literally people talk aloud like they are sitting a cafe!
Why do u guys go to movie theatre if u dont want to watcg ? Cant u book some cafe or club to hangout ?

They laughing loudly , talking like they are in their living room , setting their hair again and again and disturbing the movie. I wont ever watch a movie in theatre again specially the ones that needs concentration and focus.

Fuc** u guys. I just wanted to shout and say “ shut the fu*kk up”

Kuch sunne nai dia puri movie me.
Kuch b sunne nai dia.
Thodi to courtesty hoti h ki logo ko disturb nai karo.

And some guys behind me too. Aise behave kar re the jese dost k ghar par aye h. Khade hue h bina bt k. Kyu bhai ? Shanti se movie nai dekhi jaati kya?

Kaha jaa ra h humara desh ? Agar aisa youth h to ?

M 23 weeks pregnant and getting scared a lot for my delivery. I have decided to go for planned c section ( i have made up my mind ).
But the thought of getting cut is making my heart go faster and i feel so helpless because no matter how but i have to give birth.

So the real thing is i hate it when i think that my breast will be producing milk , i feel it so tacky , i know its a natural process , still m not able to accept the fact that i would be producing milk like a cow or another animal.
I just want to pump the milk and give it to the baby , i dont want the baby to latch , its scary and feels like eww. Maybe after delivery my motherly instinct with act up and maybe i will accept. I dont know.

Has any of u thought about that ? M the only one selfish here ?
So i even deserve to be mother?