u/Zahra_zo

Question for the men here, do you like a girl with long or short hair ?

So , im stuck at home i didn’t plan anything for vacation this year it’s too hot out and im bored idk what to do , i baked some cakes , cooked New recipes , i decorated my room idk what to do next, so any ideas like what do you do when you are bored ?

I genuinely don’t know what I’m doing with my life and it scares me.

I’m in university, but sometimes I feel like dropping everything because of the pressure of uni and also because I don’t even know why I chose this major in the first place. I have no idea what job I actually want, no clear dream career, nothing that’s been “my thing” since childhood.
What makes it more confusing is that I know I’m ambitious. My problem isn’t that I don’t want anything, it’s that I suddenly want EVERYTHING.

One day I convince myself I should become a lawyer. The next day I want to become a nail tech, start a business, create content, learn a random new skill, literally anything. Every idea feels exciting for a moment and then suddenly my brain switches and I’m like “never mind, this isn’t for me” and I want to drop it completely.

Meanwhile it feels like everyone else already knew what they wanted to become years agoLike people who dream of being doctors, architects, etc. I never had that. I never had one clear passion or career path in my mind.

Is this normal? Like what made you say and feel like « yes this it , this is what i want to be and do in Life « 

Maybe I’m the only one who feels this way, but sometimes it feels like real love is getting lost today. A lot of people seem to date just for the title of being in a relationship, without truly building something serious.
So what kind of love are you hoping for, especially when it comes to marriage and sharing a life under the same roof What does love look like to you?

Physically and emotionally what qualities instantly attract you to someone?

Like:
Physical and personnality traits you fall for and green flags that make you obsessed
And red flags you can’t ignore

Curious to see how different everyone’s preferences are 👇