Asking for guidance and opinion
So here it goes , 22m avoiding dating since 18 , the situation is I lost my guard and made a connection with this uni classmate , what started of an exchange of study materials ended in us chatting and flirting, not that I hadn't no temptation from other girls , but I mostly avoided that because I was improving myself and mostly they looked like gold diggers because I look like I live well and there interaction with me shows , so me and this girl were chatting well and I really let my guard down with this one , she was studying with me for two years and the connection started in the 3rd , after months of talking a pattern appaired , she is mostly cold , and doesn't ask or try to connect unless I do so , she has no ideas , and when I try to learn or share projects to do together as I freelance and active digitally she says yes and then nothing, there is many things more and mixed signals , I want to know if this a sign or recognizable patterns or am I just inexperienced or silly , open for opinions and judgement.