FED UP WITH MY ROOMMATE!
I honestly don't know if I'm overreacting anymore or if I somehow ended up living with the most unhinged roommate imaginable.
When she first moved in she seemed completely normal. Quiet, clean, paid rent on time. About a month in, little things started happening. Food would disappear, but only random bites. I'd open a new tub of ice cream and there would be one perfectly scooped spoonful missing. Half my strawberries would be gone. A single slice of pizza missing from the box. Every time I'd ask, she'd swear she hadn't touched anything.
Then it got weirder last week.
I came home early one day because I forgot my laptop charger. She didn't hear me come in. She was standing in my bedroom wearing my hoodie, talking to herself in my full length mirror like she was practicing a convrsation as me. She froze when she saw me and just said, "I wanted to see if it fit." Really???
I tried to brush it off because what do you even say to that? I was also rushing and frustrated.
Since then I've known she goes into my room whenever I'm out. I kept getting that weird feeling when you go into your house or room and feel like someone has been in there even if you don't see anything wierd.
Last night was the final straw.
I woke up at around 3am bcz I heard movement outside my room. I opened the door and she was crouched in the hallway holding a plush toy, whispering, "Don't tell her I'm borrowing you."
She laughed when she saw me standing there and acted like I was the weird one for making it a big deal because i was like WHAT YOU DOING?
Now she's being super friendly, making coffee for me every morning, asking if we can have movie nights, like none of this ever happened. It's almost creepier than if she'd just admitted she was being strange.
Our lease still has 9 months left, and breaking it would cost me a fortune. My sister think I'm exaggerating because every time she visits she's incredibly nice and acts completely normal.
What would you even do in this situation? Am I being paranoid, or is this as bizarre as it feels? Talking to her doesn't really work and she's older than me.