u/Zezw4r

Hi guys, hope to find you all good, and thanks in advance for every one that’s gonna spend time to read this and maybe reply….
i start whit saying, i’m 22 living with my gf from almost 3 years, i moved in this nordic country from italy, where we are living now 3 years ago, and i meet my girlfriend not so much time after i moved. I’m the type of guy that’s keep the sunshine in the pocket and with that i mean i love making happy my family, my friends, colleagues ecc… let people smile even if i been in tough situations in my life, growing up without father, and barely seeing my mom, because she had 4 works, and at 7 yo i had the responsibility of all. Now we get back to the relationship, i’m the one working in the house, she don’t work. she has problem with “adhd” and she wants to work whit what she likes and she say that is not in this country we living rn, it’s gonna be in warm place.. i said okay, i love her, i pay more then half of the rent because i’m in a city and is the most expensive of europe and i did it because i liked and also for have better future, that in italy i couldn’t have, btw after paying the rent that is half of my salary, i help my mom she’s alone and my siblings they are not helping her even if she has healt problem, after all that i can’t do anything else like buy clothes , go out for a travel ecc… fuck that because i love them, my gf also whant her space and i work 37 h/week after work i come home at around 15/16, i should shower and relax after a working day, but she want to do her stuff, then i leave the home *btw the home has a 2 rooms where i can stay, but she doesn’t feel okay to do her stuff, as preparing food for her, whatching tv ecc…* after i leave the home every day im back at 21:30 when she’s done, and i did it for 3 years almost, okay.. she doesn’t cook for me, she doesn’t talk with me about what i don’t like it’s like getting appointments to talk, sometimes i say we can talk is important and i get “i’m to tyred or we do next week ecc….” we don’t sleep in the same bed because i snor a little and she wake up, but in the night i sleep before her and i go in the bed to try to sleep, when she stay up late watching tv and smoking her joint and eating her snack, when she’s finish around 1/2 she need’s to sleep and she come to wake me up and i need to move to the other room on the sofa, in the beginning we was sleeping togheter, that thing came around half a year of relationship, sometimes if i started to snor in the other room she scream at me in the night, having traumas that’s is killing me, im doing all that for love but idk i want you guys to help to wake me up if i’m not noticing something…