Yep! This resonates!

I was excluded from a community because I don’t like to sleep around. I just spent 20 years mostly celibate (though I’d gladly have sex every day if I were in the right healthy, committed relationship) and they just spent 2 years fighting with me and bullying me…and then they said I was the one fighting! I drew healthy boundaries, so they accused me of fighting and excluded me. They were just bullying an autistic single mom. (My son was through IVF.)

u/ZucchiniArtistic7725 — 27 days ago

Does anyone else have a hard time dating because they’re not attracted to most people?

I meet only a few people a year who I even think are cute, and I’d want a serious relationship with almost none of them due to other compatibility issues. Men often think I’m flirting, and they are completely delusional. There are very few people on earth who I’d be willing to sleep with. I’d love to have sex every day, but instead I spent 20 years mostly celibate because I’m not attracted to most people. Dating is really hard for me. It’s mostly just me saying no and blocking everyone.

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u/ZucchiniArtistic7725 — 30 days ago

To the man who knows who he is: I still love you, I still want monogamy with you, I still want to maybe marry you, I still hope with my whole heart that you’ll please stay, and I’m still single.

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u/ZucchiniArtistic7725 — 1 month ago

I want to remarry and someone (who I don’t know and who is acting without my consent) is preventing me from using dating apps - and I am overwhelmed by fighting and I really wish people would stop fighting with me because it’s so exhausting.

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u/ZucchiniArtistic7725 — 1 month ago