Feeling like I’m falling behind in life and career
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Hey guys, I hope you’re all doing well.
I’m feeling really stressed, anxious, and honestly quite depressed lately. I’m currently working after completing my BTech in ECE, but my job is in water treatment, which is completely unrelated to my degree.
One of my close friends recently left to pursue his MTech, and after he left, it really started hitting me that maybe I’m falling behind in life. He’s moving forward with higher studies while I’m stuck in a job that doesn’t feel connected to what I studied.
I’m also worried about my future career because I feel like there aren’t many opportunities for me in the water-treatment field, especially with an ECE background. At the same time, I don’t consider myself particularly intelligent academically, so I’m scared that I won’t be able to compete or make a better career for myself.
Recently, I interviewed for a really good opportunity and got rejected. That rejection hit me harder than I expected. 😭
Right now, I genuinely feel like I’m not good at anything and that I’m becoming a failure in life. It feels like everyone around me is moving ahead while I’m just stuck.
I know maybe I’m overthinking everything, but I honestly don’t know what to do or how to get myself out of this situation.
Has anyone else been through something similar? How did you deal with it and figure out your career?