u/_Glizzyinahoneydew

I'm a stealth trans guy in the UK (london+Bournemouth based) and I would really like some trans men friends. Idk 1 trans guy irl and would really like some guys near me to be friends with. I'm posting this here because (you domt have to be stealth ofc) but I would really like some friends like me. I'm not crazy macho or anything but I'm extremely binary male and I would like a group of guy friends who just happen to be trans and live their life that way too so if this is you and you wanna make a friend message me 😅

Idk any trans ppl irl, and all I see online is people saying they're scared to be a man, they don't wanna be grouped in with cis men, they think men are bad, they don't wanna lose their femininty/they feel like they see the world on a feminine view etc etc. I would really like some trans man friends (especially from the UK) but it's really hard to navigate this community sometimes. I'm extremely binary, very male , no nuisance whatsoever. Just looking for ppl like minded. The other ftm subreddit is full of what I'm assuming are younger trans ppl who domt have much experience either stealth/ irl in general so if you're anything like me please dm. I need some like minded friends that aren't gonna debate me on being male and we can just be guy friends together 😭 I have a great relationship with all my cis guy friends I just need trans men who are the same

So I work in a pub in the UK, I'm completely stealth and just got promoted to one of the managers. Idk why but being stealth as a manager feels crazy to me. It was different when I was just part of the team but now I make decisions and discipline people when they do wrong etc. Just wondering if anyone else who's stealth but in an important position at work who can give advice.