This started as “maybe I’ll go to the BTS concert” and now I’m planning 10 days in Spain.

After booking flights and hotels, my brain was basically done, so now I’m cheaping out on the boring stuff too. Roaming with my usual carrier looked stupid expensive, so I ended up getting a $0.70/day Redteago esim instead.

Small practical question: how are Orange / Movistar networks around Madrid? I only need maps, train tickets, whatsApp and calling a car when I give up on walking. Not planning to upload concert videos on data or anything. And still downloading offline maps though. I don’t trust myself that much.

Madrid and maybe a couple day trips around it are the only parts I’ve actually pinned down, so I’m still figuring out where else is worth adding.

1 month and a week. It's all it took for her to break my heart and here I sit at 4:59 a.m typing and feeling a little bit heavy but that's okay cause I'm gonna be okay. It's been hard for my brain and body to accept this attribution since I was ghosted without even a reason.

It was earlier this week at first I thought it was normal, until when I started thinking what If maybe she's not ignoring my calls, my texts and maybe something really awful happened to her(Like death since she had travelled home).

I didn't want to call her mum to ask if her daughter was okay, cause we hadn't introduced each other to our parents nor any family members. I'm really sorry that that thought crossed my mind but that's now when I decided to deactivate my social( I was on detox) and look for anyone close to her. I found her brother's account and respectfully dm'd him and said I'm his sister's friend and she's been quiet lately and she has not responded to any of the calls or texts and all I wanna know is, If she's okay.

I might have swept lower but I guess to me that's maturity worrying about someone's wellbeing even if they don't care about you. It's a heavy move and required me to kill off my ego. He did not respond. And I remembered her tik tok and so I jumped there(she rarely posts, but reposts) to see if she reposted anything lately. And to my surprise, 16h ago, 2d ago, and 4d ago she reposted. She first ghosted me 2d ago so yeah, that proves my answers. I hope my assumptions are correct and what I found is also correct cause no one else uses her phone apart from her.

We had talked and I had promised to better her and even myself from any bad habit that hurts either me, or anyone that is outside there in this life. Even strangers, cause I believe being kind is free. Freedom starts from your kindness.

It was a great run and I really wanted big for both of us. Karma will collect It's dues. Hope she finds what she's looking for. Hope she finds herself❤️‍🩹.

Mlisema Ni redflags ngapi mtu anafaa kuignore? Cause this is too much. Tell y'all what I know she ain't cheating that's for sure I'm Just tired of her dismissive avoidant persona.

I called ber yesterday evening from work like 4 times, texted and shit, called again, texted goodnight all to get a flat out good morning text and a "sorry I missed your call, I went day drinking with my sisters na zikashika mbaya" no even a proper apology, no even a proper explanation to anything and here is my catch.

1. I'm being pushed away.

2.Hii kitu ishaisna ni mimi tu niko in denial.

3. That's the biggest disrespectful thing that has ever been done to me.

My advice majama, usiwai date dame anakata Maji ata kama anakata na mamayake, mi nishaset boundaries na priorities na nikishamake up my mind from this hakuna kurudi nyuma. 10n outta 10 sijakataa, but no, I'm building something bigger and a bitc won't slow me down.

Anyways, ni vile sina mtu wa kurant to cause I barely talk to anyone and I believe in fixing my shi* rather than it gets outside. Mniombee😭😂

Heh!!! Ndio naona post ya phone snatching na nikakumbuka hii yangu ikiweza pepea saii naweza lia mwaka mzima na a very heavy heart. Saa zingine najiulizanga nini ilifanya niende flagship before ninunue gari buana🥲 Right now I'm on the verge of losing over 1k usd that might be taken by a jamaa who has komboad a nduthi at 300 shillings a day.

Although I have implemented some very smart moves to avoid my phone kupepea tu fwaaaa....

1. I stopped using airpods while walking to increase my surrounding awareness.

2. I don't pick calls if I'm walking, wacha nifike home ama ofisi tuongee.

3. I sit at the window seat in matatu's to ensure that where I'm Sitting it remains closed(because I pay for transport with my phone).

4. If I come out of work late, I uber home.

5. It's a good phone and I'm tempted to take pictures every now and then, if so, I position myself where a nduthi can't pass... I'd rather deal with a nig* on foot than one on a motorbike at 180Kmph.

6. I'm Buying a Katululu for calls and mpesa transactions.

What skills are y'all implying to make you and your device safe buana????🥲🥲