u/_belongtothecity

Ive been living at an apartment complex for the past 3 years with my reactive dog. In these past 3 years I have managed to get my boy to be less reactive to humans and cats but the occasional dog he sees drives him crazy.

With that being said, there's a lady that lives all the way across the complex (completely on the opposite side from me) who knows my dog is reactive, but she purposely goes out of her way to walk her dog near mines every single day..

I understand I do live in an apartment complex, and people are allowed to freely walk their dog wherever they want.. However, i can be alone in my own yard, and she will still walk across 3 different parking lots with her dog just to come near us and set my dog off. Sometimes while I'm walking my dog, if I notice her, I will actively try to go in the opposite direction just to avoid a reaction but she will still end up following us the entire time. There have even been times she has brought her dog directly up to my sliding door just to get a reaction out of mines and it clearly stresses out both of our dogs but she just will not stop. It's even more frustrating considering she doesn't even live on my side

Im not really sure what to do in this situation anymore tbh. Im still working with my dog on being less reactive to other dogs, but it feels impossible when this lady quite literally brings her dog to my door sometimes. I've even tried confronting her before but she just ignored me and I feel like bringing the issue up to the landlord would just get my dog kicked out. Any advice?

my gf (28F) and I (26F) have been living together for about 3 years now. a couple months ago for her birthday, I noticed she got a text from a guy she’s never mentioned before saying “I love you my sweet baby”

at first, I shrugged it off because it was her birthday and it could’ve genuinely just been a nice text. but when I asked her about it, she went upstairs to delete the texts, then came back down stairs and pretended like she didn’t even know what I was talking about.

at that point I started to get upset because I KNEW what i saw on her phone and that she was lying to me so i asked her again to just be honest, and that’s when she told me it was her cousin. at first i felt bad about being upset but then i realized i’ve never even heard about this cousin so when i asked her to show me him that’s when she confessed it was an old friend from high school that won’t leave her alone.

she became really upset and started apologizing , saying she panicked and deleted the texts because she was drunk. part of me wants to believe her so bad but the fact that she lied to my face so many times in a row and deleted the texts so i couldn’t see them just doesn’t sit right with me.

to give a little back story, our relationship didn’t start off on the best note either. when we first got together it was because she left her husband for me claiming she was a lesbian. and throughout the first year of our relationship i caught her texting the ex husband multiple times even after she said he was blocked

so now Im just stuck on what to do. part of me feels like i should leave because it feels like cheating but im unsure if it technically is. and part of me wants to believe her so bad? because why would she delete texts if she has nothing to hide, but she also was very drunk and she seemed genuinely apologetic? any advice?

I don’t really have any one irl to talk to this about, and it’s honestly really stressing me out. last night I went look on my ex’s social media (ashamed to admit lol) and her most recent post said something like “realizing it was sexual assault even tho my response was to fawn” and I can’t help but think the post is about me considering all she has done for the past couple months is lie about me on social media

to give context, we’re both women and most of our sexual dynamic was her being the top because i was quite literally afraid to touch her due to my own trauma. any time we did stuff though, it was with her consent and she seemed to enjoy it / be on board and never once did she seem uncomfortable to me

but now i can’t help but question if i ever made her uncomfortable and didn’t realize. so i just feel gross and really sad that the post may be about me considering how our relationship was, and im unsure of how to deal with it :/ i know the best thing i can do is avoid her social media but its sooooo hard knowing shes always talking about me on there

bought an oz from Greenleaf this morning, wasn’t able to weigh it up until I got home from work just now and noticed I was short a gram. it’s not much but with how expensive the prices have been, I’m upset it wasn’t the full zip

realistically I know nothing can be done about it now, but for future reference if it happens again, what would the dispensary do about it? would they make up for the gram or would they do nothing about it since the bags are already prepackaged?

being shorted was one of the many reasons I started going to the dispensary instead of getting it illegally, but now the dispensary is shorting me too? I feel like I can’t win