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The problem is I can do it when watching tutorial and practicing for sometime. But the next day I am just like a beginner again with a new tutorial. 6 months. No progress. Am I not made for this?

edit: I also have problems holding my uke. I guess I need a strap but my ukulele has no hook or anything.

Today, masculine men are considered as more attractive. While in women, slim or curvy are taken as more attractive or sexy.

Sure other factors are used too. Like skin color due to racism and british colonization I guess. And also spotless skin is more attractive because of obvious reason- they look morw symmetrical and natural.

How did our attractiveness scale orginate?

A possiblity might be that women liked their men more strong. And men wanted their women to be more slim because (I guess I am wrong) of sexual preference. Even in modern society as we see the objectifying of women, slim girls are generally considered more sexy because of the same reason.

Speaking of objectification of women. I can make another post on it but let's start with a small question:

Do women like to be objectified?

I am not generalising and I am against it. But most of the girls just wants them to 'be' other boys' kinda property. Like maybe I am wrong. Maybe it happens with both genders.

When will these things change and how?
Again, sorry for my bad English amd grammar.

My opinions might be wrong, I request you correct me instead of just downvoting.

When did this start and why?

We know that we started wearing clothes as a protective layer.

So a good possibility might be that those who had been poor (I am talking about ancient times like stone age or earlier) or weak could not afford those clothes and the stronger people mocked them. This later converted to shame? No?

And maybe protecting our sexual organs became the bare minimum.

On what criteria is a part termed as sexual?

Well, breast are not reproductive organ then why did they became sexualized?

Why did we start covering them?

A possibility might be that those organs which are different between male and female are taken that way.

But then men's chest should have also been sexualised as they are different from that of women.

And sorry for my English and grammar. I am trying to improve.
Edit: In the title, bordy body.

It's a philosophical as well as historical question.

When did this start and why?

We know that we started wearing clothes as a protective layer.

So a good possibility might be that those who had been poor (I am talking about ancient times like stone age or earlier) or weak could not afford those clothes and the stronger people mocked them. This later converted to shame? No?

And maybe protecting our sexual organs became the bare minimum.

On what criteria is a part termed as sexual?

Well, breast are not reproductive organ then why did they became sexualized?

Why did we start covering them?

A possibility might be that those organs which are different between male and female are taken that way.

But then men's chest should have also been sexualised as they are different from that of women.

I am not sure if it is a historical question.

And sorry for my english and grammar. I am trying to improve.