

Older guy looking for some advice
I (M62) am needing some advice on meeting guys. I am not looking for a relationship, but would really like a FWB situation. Here’s the issue: three years ago I was diagnosed with prostate cancer, and had my prostate removed. All is good now, except for some lingering erectile issues - everything else works. I have always really enjoyed being on bottom and I enjoy giving oral, and I like doing things to please a guy. I have stated clearly on my app profiles that I am 100% bottom. Whenever anyone shows interest in me, I let them know about my issue very clearly - in most cases, I am told it’s not a big deal. I am working out/staying fit (6’ 1”, 175), and being social/active in the community - I am also kind and, I think, a nice guy. I am working on developing a thicker skin about rejection - as you know, being on the apps can be a battlefield. For those of you that are tops (even vers top), what are your thoughts and how important is it for you that your partner has a full erection? Do you have any advice for someone in my situation?