u/_i_know_you_are_

Older guy looking for some advice

I (M62) am needing some advice on meeting guys.  I am not looking for a relationship, but would really like a FWB situation.  Here’s the issue:  three years ago I was diagnosed with prostate cancer, and had my prostate removed.  All is good now, except for some lingering erectile issues - everything else works.  I have always really enjoyed being on bottom and I enjoy giving oral, and I like doing things to please a guy.  I have stated clearly on my app profiles that I am 100% bottom.  Whenever anyone shows interest in me, I let them know about my issue very clearly - in most cases, I am told it’s not a big deal. I am working out/staying fit (6’ 1”, 175), and being social/active in the community - I am also kind and, I think, a nice guy.  I am working on developing a thicker skin about rejection - as you know, being on the apps can be a battlefield.  For those of you that are tops (even vers top), what are your thoughts and how important is it for you that your partner has a full erection?  Do you have any advice for someone in my situation?

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u/_i_know_you_are_ — 4 months ago