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ASKING FOR HELP/TIPS: maybe overambitious project of modifying (thrift flipping?) a vest with lwk no experience in sewing

Hi okay to get out of the way. Yes I know, this may be a bit much to start out with as a beginner. I know my basics of how to work a sewing machine, and I have a general knowledge on different stitches and their purpose, treating different fabrics uniquely, yadayada. However I have not actually used a sewing machine or made/modified clothes with one. And I’ll try to get some practice and train myself into getting used to one by making other clothes/crafts with easy patterns. Just getting that out of the way just incase someone says something along the lines of “you can’t expect to jump into a harder project with no experience” or smn.

So back to my main point. I got this vest from the thrift store, and I wanted to take on trying to modify it for my bf’s cosplay. It’s this Calvin Klein suit vest. My main inspo are those military utility jackets with hella pockets and decorations u see on pinterest.

Details on the vest
- I dyed it black, there’s still this very faint pattern on it that you can also see in my drawing. The modifications I’ll add to would just be the same overall color of the vest, rather than me trying to find fabric that has that same pattern. I think the difference would add cool but subtle visual interest.
- the vest has some inner lining (is that the word to describe it? There’s two layers of fabric sewn together, and it shows underneath), mostly in the back/arm area and to accommodate for the fake useless pockets as well. This could get in the way of whatever modifications I add to it. If I could change/add a different lining, I’d make it dark red, if not, the vest may be messy from the inside which I think wouldn’t be too bad. Unless they serve an actual function.
- buttons are black. I wanted to change them to a grey color.
- there’s a two stitched lines that go through the pockets and sorta just ends near the breast region. Not sure what it’s called, and I would like to know what its called because you’ll see a bunch of lines of stitches in jackets and such. And idk if they ALWAYS serve a practical purpose. I do really like how it looks on clothing.

Concerns about modifications
- alot of my inspiration is drawn from jackets. But this is a thin slim fit suit vest. And while I’m not trying to go for a formal attire style or anything. I do wonder if some of the modifications may not work for this type of clothing.
- whatever the over the shoulder part of the vest is called, its shape may interfere with how I’d want to put pockets and other stuff on it, as well as layering it the same way I drew it on my sketch.
- the actual inner lining in the vest may be an issue. Idk if lining is something you can just take out and replace. And if not, I’d probably just have to make a vest from scratch, which may not be a problem.
- I’m not entirely sure where to get the fabric. Nor do I know what the fabric used for this vest is called. I thought about just taking apart other similar thrifted clothing to harness its fabric (Like how ppl will take apart jeans to make it into bags), but idk if that’ll be efficient or if that’ll provide me with enough fabric.
- are pockets something you can just make by itself and then attach to the vest later on, or is it something you have to kinda sew WITH the vest.

So here’s my questions.

For starting out as a beginner and training myself to be able to tackle the project
- is there such a thing as “sewing warmups” to get used to using the sewing machine?
- what common errors would I have to be careful of when it comes to sewing? (Like how thread could bunch up in sewing)
- Any easy clothing/craft pattern for me to start out with to get used to sewing and build up my knowledge/skills?
- Any other resources you’d recommend? (Good video tutorials you think are the best, books/articles to read, etc)

And for modifying the vest
- how do I deal with the inner lining?
- is what I drew up in my sketch something I can do on this thrifted vest, or would I have to start from scratch?
- any specific techniques relevant to the design idea? (Ie, some resource on how to sew those kinds of pockets).
- any resources relevant to the design idea?
- is my design possible to make? Or like is there some changes needed to make for the design?
- are pockets like something you can make buy itself and just attach to the vest later once its done, or would I have to make it with the vest?
- what kind of fabric+tools would I need? Is there anything potentially special for the tools in this project, or could I just work with the basics…
- what are the materials needed for this design? (ik fat shoelaces/ribbons for the string design thingy. What are the little metal ring loophole things used for lacing the string? Wait was there a Phineas and ferb episode about that. Was it an anklet? Idk I’ll check later)
- What should I look out for?
- Any advice… 😢😢

I think that’s about it. Thank you. I needed some sort of project to work on in order for me to force myself to sew, I’ve always wanted to do sewing stuff.

u/_qqwl1 — 11 days ago
▲ 8 r/Vent

My boyfriend had sex with me and it lowkey cured my depression

I (18F) was super depressed for like most of July. My spark was dimmed, I was excruciatingly bored and lonely, feeling like the husk of the person I’m supposed to be, losing my joy and creativity as the days kept repeating itself.

It really was hard for me to be happy for bit. What kept me going was doing the things I was passionate about, or obsess over something but I legit had no desire or will to do any of that. It felt extremely pointless with how empty my days were this summer. I was really trying I swear. I got medicated on Vyvanse to maybe help regulate my ADHD, tried to talk to people everytime I went out for my class or volunteer work, watched movies, tried to clean my room, played instruments. It felt extremely, unfulfilling. I wasn’t happy, and I cried and sobbed almost every night. I felt like I was wasting so much time that, if I had the passion and energy I had then, I’d wring the hell out of. I felt like a burden to myself.

And then I was like fuck it I want to fuck my boyfriend (18M). Under a Friday night’s extensive long paragraph of my emotional vulnerabilities and expression of depression, I texted on a Saturday morning “Wanna get freaky today 👀👀👀”. Bf said yes. I Blew money for a motel room, and he got upset at me for spending so much money. And man was he upset at me in bed (tone indicator —> POSITIVE connotation). He wrestled my ass to bed with him and fucked the hell outta me. He did not spare me a moments of complete rest (tone indicator —> GREAT thing). I was overwhelmed by his mouth skills, his hunger and honestly his surprisingly strength. I genuinely did not think I’d be the girl who’d want to be dominated by a man but here we are. It had to be him too, his dorky ass… And he was upset at me for that little waste of money, because that energy channelled beautifully into that session. It was so worth it. Thank god.

Clarification for the seemingly contradictory emotions and actions. Yes he was rough and really manhandling me, but it was all purely consensual, I wanted this. He’s a kind soul… he was checking up on me making sure I was okay. So just to get that clear!

Anyways. After that I wasn’t that depressed anymore. Seriously. I like playing the guitar, I like the piano, I like to eat, now I want to try sewing, I want to this and that, I like being alive. I feel happier now. I don’t feel that weight of uselessness, or void of emptiness, or joy dampening melancholy. Like I feel okay now!

It might be an ADHD thing and how I’m disgustingly extroverted, like needing a good constant social circle in my life (I need people around me. I need to talk to people constantly.) kinda extroverted. And maybe with ADHD the silence of my life right now, and how my meds cleared up space within my mind, made me so painfully unstimulated. And boredom is really painful for me. Paired with some other factors in my life. And Ik ADHD and sex can like, play into each other a bit because of ADHD’s whole stimulation seeking shtick.

I was really happy to see my Boyfriend. And I was really happy to get absolutely fucked by my boyfriend. All of a sudden I have hope for life! I guess a girl really just needed to get her pussy ate. I love my boyfriend, I’m going to give him gifts and affection and love him… I’m going to make sure he’s absolutely loved and cared for. He’s such a sweet guy!

College will be starting soon, hopefully that opens up new opportunities to keep myself busy with mind engagement slops/gems (aka Work, Job, Classes), as well as allow me to be around more people more often.

Sex is such a nice bonding experience man.

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u/_qqwl1 — 3 months ago

Condom broke, flo told me I’m ovulating, do I take a plan b, how do I do this, also family trip next week

Hi. So me (18f) and my bf (18m) were fucking willy nilly and condom broke.

I think it could either be from the lube (it was water based, said it was compatible with condoms except this one specific type of condom and stupid me not double checking maybe didn’t realize those trojans were those types of condoms.) or maybe because my bf was dumb and didn’t put it in right, or maybe because I’ve had those condom packs sitting in a bag for a month so maybe its conditions damaged the quality. But yadayada. It broke while I was at missionary.

So if I do my calculations… he didn’t nut inside me and maybe the gravity can’t shoot an pre-cum nut up my vaginal canals (lest sperm has legs and can climb) but there’s the risk of pre-cum and the fact that I’m in ovulation sooo… (please don’t take this down I’m not asking if I’m pregnant I’m asking what do I do rn)

What exactly do I do in this case. I’m 18f still living with my parents and r under their medical insurance. They’re christian prolifers and while I love them and they def love me they wouldn’t be thrilled on me having an abortion (with their permission), nor would they be thrilled that I was fucking my bf.

Do I take an opil/some emergency contraceptive. Do I take a pregnant test so I can confirm I’m pregnant or smn before I spend my money on contraceptives. Do I go to the planned parenthood get the abortion now. Am I even ovulating, cuz flo told me I am. What do I do in this case because I don’t know

Guys plz tell me the process and how I’n supposed to do this. Can it be as secretive from family as possible. I got a trip with my family thursday next week and its saturday sooo… I gotta act fast if I am actually pregnant or whatever.

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u/_qqwl1 — 3 months ago
▲ 3 r/Herpes

Giving head

Can I give head if I got hsv1 but no active outbreak, or no cold sores?

Ive asked my doctor to give me antivirals but she told me she cant prescribe them to me if I dont have any active outbreaks 😭😭😭 bruh.

How bad is shedding and it spreading? Am I seriously unable to give head forever. Damn.

Anyways plz someone answer this question bruh

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u/_qqwl1 — 4 months ago