u/adrian_24-

Need advice in an owner to owner sale.

My wife and I are looking to purchase my grandparents home that they have paid off for $250,000, we have already been preapproved and got the letter emailed today. My grandparents are okay with selling at that price, while my wife and I are obviously looking to get the most beneficial deal for us, while not trying to screw over my grandparents.
We were told 19,000 in estimated closing costs & down payment.
I guess my long worded explanation boils down to this question. What is a fair amount to ask my grandparents to cover of those costs ? If they were going to sell the house, on the market with a realtor, with those fees included as well as any potential buyer negotiations, is it fair to ask for half ? For more ? Or less? And advice is appreciated.
We live in Oklahoma and are doing a FHA 30 year fixed rate.

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u/adrian_24- — 4 days ago

Grade and hold ?

I won this 2026 Wemby ASG Cactus Jack X Topps in a break, not big into collecting basketball cards other than Kobe. Last sale of a psa 9 was 750 last raw sales were before the playoffs and awards.
Something tells me to hold on it as it being first year back licensed Topps and the cactus jack collab. Thoughts ?

u/adrian_24- — 10 days ago