Did they change the formula? Discouraged on my 2nd nexplanon

Hello! For context, I am 27F, and have been on Nexplanon for 4.5 years now (currently on my second rod). My first Nexplanon was great for me, though it had cons. I felt great, i did gain some weight but lost it all the same, my skin and hair were so nice. Looking back, though, my mood was insane, though I mostly attributed it to my mental health condition. Similarly, my period also stopped, which was honestly great for me. my sex drive was great too! overall, it wasn't too bad of an experience that's why i decided to get my second nexplanon inserted last 2024.

Things changed with this second one. my period was so irregular i'd bleed for 2 weeks, have it pause for a few days, then bleed again. I got the worst period cramps ever, and i've been so sleepy, sluggish, and so tired all the time. In the first few months of my second insertion, i mostly retained weight, but ultimately gained. Eventually, I became a very active person, mountaineering on the weekends and running and cycling on the weekdays. I have lost a significant amount of weight, but i can't find myself go back to my weight pre-second insertion even if i'm more active than ever (i was 53kg pre-second insertion, 63 kg right now). I'm currently more worried too, as I've taken a pause on my activities because of worsening mental health, and I find myself hungrier than ever, and super bloated as well. losing the weight has been such a pain in the ass.

I get breakouts so frequently, mostly in the chin area too. My face was so oily, and I'm having insane amounts of hair fall, which I didn't before. my hair is too thin now.

importantly, i've had these polyps grow over my body. there are small circular lumps on my butt and my forearm. i had polyps turn into tumors in my back. i have no skin issues, take a bath and scrub everyday--so when i had the tumors excised, my doctor told me the polyps could be hormonal since biopsy results showed that those were benign. i'm honestly kind of scared now. has anyone experienced this as well?

anywho, i wonder if they did something different with the new batches. Planning to have my nexplanon removed today. what was it like for you?

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u/aearoplane — 6 days ago
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First time to LDR (27F/31M)…whew

First time getting in an LDR. It has been the nicest, best time dating (albeit online). He (31M) is some of the best and sweetest and this has been my nicest relationship ever but the times when the distance hits is also making me so so miserable lol.

Didn’t know i’d both be the happiest and saddest in a relationship dynamic. We’ve been talking, calling, communicating for over 7 months now with plans to meet December of this year (that’d be over a year of talking if we reach that—which im positive we will) though open and eager to meet ASAP if we get extra money, gigs, etc…

We both love each other but being common working people not having a lot of money is difficult. I’m from manila and I have to save up a really long time while he’s a blue collar worker from korea

Just need advice how to deal with the nights when the distance just really hits. I feel so stupid for crying so much sometimes but there’s nothing i can do. Is it valid? Or am i doing too much for this amount of time?

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u/aearoplane — 7 days ago

First time to LDR (27F/31M)…whew

First time getting in an LDR. It has been the nicest, best time dating (albeit online). He (31M) is some of the best and sweetest and this has been my nicest relationship ever but the times when the distance hits is also making me so so miserable lol.

Didn’t know i’d both be the happiest and saddest in a relationship dynamic. We’ve been talking, calling, communicating for over 7 months now with plans to meet December of this year (that’d be over a year of talking if we reach that—which im positive we will) though open and eager to meet ASAP if we get extra money, gigs, etc…

We both love each other but being common working people not having a lot of money is difficult. I’m from manila and I have to save up a really long time while he’s a blue collar worker from korea

Just need advice how to deal with the nights when the distance just really hits. I feel so stupid for crying so much sometimes but there’s nothing i can do. Is it valid? Or am i doing too much for this amount of time?

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u/aearoplane — 9 days ago