How do we help each other?
Mold toxicity has changed my life. I always wanted to help other people, and now I want to help people specifically with this awful illness.
But I am still on the mend, so I'm not able to physically help others going through it - e.g., I can't help someone clean their belongings or take them out of town to a mold specialist.
I recently made a friend online who is across the country and is in the thick of the severe reactions and the brain fog -- I was in a similar place in 2024.
I can only help her virtually and it's depressing. I've looked up doctors for her. I've told her that I had the same symptoms. I've provided emotional support. I've referenced John Banta and Dr. Neil Nathan's books when she asked questions that were beyond my expertise. I've told her she can get well with the right help (both help to fix the house and her body)
But my new friend says that no one who lives nearby believes her that mold made her sick. And she isn't well enough to travel - at least not alone - which would open up possibilities for more doctors. Her kids don't believe her - if they weren't being assholes, they could step in and HELP HER get well. Good grief.
How do we all help each other? Do the well people stick around in the forums?
So I'm like: OMG, if I had 6 more months of healing behind me, I would just fly out there and take her to see the doctor myself.
I have this dream of creating a community of people who UNDERSTAND MOLD TOXICITY and support each other through this illness, but I don't know how to do create that. Or how else to help this poor woman who doesn't have the right friends at her side.
ANY thoughts welcome...
I'm putting out this community idea into the universe. Maybe something will come of it in time.