Does anyone else struggle with not constantly changing their appearance? Like if I look the same too long I stop thinking I look cool or something and I HAVE to change it.
I very badly want to grow out my natural hair. I have great dark brown almost black hair naturally, but I can't help but desperately want to dye my hair. I have for years, but I'm tired of it and I can't find something that works for me anymore.I feel like I need a piercing or a tattoo or something, but I'm not willing to spend the money on non-necessities until I have more of a savings. Like every now and then I HAVE to modify something about my appearance or I get really depressed and sad and feel like I'm ugly. I can't really do that now and I feel like I'm covered in hypothetical hives. Any tips on how to deal with this when you're having to be a little more normy for a while?