u/alibandz

There are so many doctors who don't care about human well being

There are so many doctors who mock and laugh and want to play god

There's going to come a day for the end of the modern healthcare system as we know it

I lost my mother due to a medical error a prescription pill

I remember I had p t s d for my mother passing away , and from my family abandoning me , and the therapist told me to go on an app for help

I remember going to the emergency room to try to get help for facial pain t m j

They refused to give me m r I because it was late at night

And then they mailed some pills to my house

It's wartime now

For years I’ve wondered if I was going crazy or did anyone understand. I’ve had left side roof of mouth aches for 3 years now. At first I got a scan of sinuses but no infection. I thought it was trigeminal neuralgia because my mom had it, but I don’t have the same symptoms as it. My symptoms are left side roof of mouth sharp ice pick pain like stabbing and it used to paralyze me I couldn’t even want to move or talk. When I talk alot, it hurts way worse. Talking is a trigger. This all makes me so tired all of the time the constant pain can’t focus for long.

I am narrowing it down as I have been researching for 3 years now. I am going to see a maxillofacial pain specialist or orofacial pain specialist. Also, I had braces 10 years ago but didn’t wear retainer. But what I believe triggered the TMJ was stress I had a bad stress period after 2022-2025. Then the migraines came which made my stress high and now I have gut inflammation and Gi issues, can’t eat certain foods cause diarrhea and my stomach started feeling tight and hard and burning. The gut issues most definitely came from the stress of having chronic migraines everyday. When I used to do thc the migraines were goneee. But I got tired of thc. Made me sleepy and hungry more and couldn’t focus.

When I open my mouth wide, the pain is less. When I close it, it hurts more. But it is always the left side roof of mouth with a tightness of the palate.

Now when I started to do some jaw massages and I was relieved for only a few hours so that didn’t help much after time went by. This pain has made me angry, stressed and just sad over the years. Hopefully after I see the facial pain specialist, I will get my life back.

Please let me know if you are going thru something just like mine and if you have the same type of ice pick stabbing pain I have on one side of your roof of mouth. Sometimes it goes to top of my head or the other side of my palate. But that left side is the spot always. I’m surprised how I lasted this long, but it’s time for me to see a specialist and put my faith to action.

I look forward to your comments, advice, help, just to know I’m not alone or crazy. Thanks for reading.

I love my husband. I am not saying who is wrong or who is right. I understand that is not what marriage is about. Sometimes my husband says it’s ok to ask things and sometimes he says he don’t like it. I’m confused and I am trying to understand him. Maybe I care too much. I ask about his business like his school and today he says he don’t like the question. I told him that I feel like he is treating me so random when he says that because I thought in a marriage we are supposed to be comfortable talking about everything.
I am so open with him about everything. When he didn’t even have no customers I helped him with so much, but the thing is, he never asked for my help. Now all of a sudden I can’t ask about the very thing I helped with. I’m just tired of being treated funny by the man I lay next to. I respect his boundaries yes I never want to annoy a man but it’s like why? He ask me about my stuff and I answer every question without no dang attitude. This is so annoying sometimes he’s mood swinging with what he wants. I mean all he does is his business so I think about it really me asking about him because that’s what he likes. The thing is he don’t even know why he “dosent like those questions.” All I did was ask him did he get any clients at the gym today you know just innocently. He immediately says “I don’t like that don’t ask me that” when everybody we talk about his business. Anyway, we already came to the agreement that I won’t ask him nothing about his business and work and he don’t ask me about mine. Unless it’s pertains to money that’s all I care about now. I’m tired of getting shut out. And then when I go silent on him he’s wondering what’s wrong and he says “you’re not doing the wife things that you used to” So frustrating. First he used to say I yelled and now when I stopped that now he says it’s the questions. Confused and exhausted and that’s why I stay to myself in this marriage and just focus on me.

I love my husband. I am not saying who is wrong or who is right. I understand that is not what marriage is about. Sometimes my husband says it’s ok to ask things and sometimes he says he don’t like it. I’m confused and I am trying to understand him. Maybe I care too much. I ask about his business like his school and today he says he don’t like the question. I told him that I feel like he is treating me so random when he says that because I thought in a marriage we are supposed to be comfortable talking about everything.
I am so open with him about everything. When he didn’t even have no customers I helped him with so much, but the thing is, he never asked for my help. Now all of a sudden I can’t ask about the very thing I helped with. I’m just tired of being treated funny by the man I lay next to. I respect his boundaries yes I never want to annoy a man but it’s like why? He ask me about my stuff and I answer every question without no dang attitude. This is so annoying sometimes he’s mood swinging with what he wants. I mean all he does is his business so I think about it really me asking about him because that’s what he likes. The thing is he don’t even know why he “dosent like those questions.” All I did was ask him did he get any clients at the gym today you know just innocently. He immediately says “I don’t like that don’t ask me that” when everybody we talk about his business. Anyway, we already came to the agreement that I won’t ask him nothing about his business and work and he don’t ask me about mine. Unless it’s pertains to money that’s all I care about now. I’m tired of getting shut out. And then when I go silent on him he’s wondering what’s wrong and he says “you’re not doing the wife things that you used to” So frustrating. First he used to say I yelled and now when I stopped that now he says it’s the questions. Confused and exhausted and that’s why I stay to myself in this marriage and just focus on me.