First OBGYN exam
Today i went and had my first exam done at a gynecologist. I am fairly young so im not sexually active or anything like that. When the doctor examined me it just felt so uncomfortable, i hated the feeling, it was a weird pressure. My thighs kept closing without me realizing it and she got irritated with me. She said i needed to use tampons now and that it wasn’t a question or recommendation but that i absolutely had to do it, she also said i needed to start having sex. Her excuse was that her daughter who’s my age uses tampons and has sex. What do i do? My mom is just agreeing with the doctor and i don’t know how to make myself comfortable with being touched there. I cried during the exam and keep crying about it, am i overreacting?