u/aloowalabhai

I work as a Cloud & DevOps Engineer and recently wrapped up my BSc in Computer Science. Alongside the technical side, I've also done leadership and community work in the past, so I'd say I'm someone who's comfortable both building things and guiding people through them.

Long term, I want to grow into enterprise-level infrastructure architecture, not just maintain systems but actually design them. I'm also seriously considering a Masters abroad at some point, mainly because I want to relocate and grow my career outside Pakistan eventually, so that's a real part of my plan, not just a maybe.

I'm hands-on by nature, I don't just want to know how something works, I want to understand why, and that shows up in how I approach most things in life, not just work. Alongside the technical side I also do creative stuff, it balances out the logic-heavy parts of my day. I'm someone who genuinely loves to listen, and I've always naturally ended up guiding or leading people, whether that's at work or outside it. I'm direct, I say what I mean, I don't do games or mixed signals, and I expect the same back. PS I'm 5'11, and I sing really bad too, figured I'd be upfront about both.

What I'm looking for:

• Someone kind and ambitious in her own right, doesn't need to have it all figured out, just needs to be moving somewhere
• Age around 21-26
• Would consider a yapper too, I love when people yap to me
• Someone I can actually talk to, real conversations, not just surface level
• Open minded but still rooted in faith, same as me
• If she's also open to eventually relocating abroad, that's a big plus, but not a dealbreaker right away

I'm not doing this casually, I'm looking for something that actually leads somewhere. If this sounds like your kind of person, reach out.

Lately, I’ve been sitting in a quiet, surreal kind of silence. I recently had to navigate the end of a relationship, and despite trying our best to make things work, we ultimately realized our paths and families weren't aligned. Walking away gracefully was the hardest choice, but it was the right one.

Now, the dust has settled, and I’m left dealing with the emotional reset that comes with closing such a major chapter. To cope with the stress and keep my head above water over the past few months, I did what a lot of people do: I threw myself entirely into my work. I work in cloud infrastructure and DevOps, and I’ve been building systems, writing code, and launching projects for hours every single day. Work became my safe, predictable space, and I pushed myself to professional limits, thinking that if I just focused on my career, everything else would fall into place.

Yesterday, I looked around and realized a harsh truth: in the process of trying to handle life changes and grinding away at my career, I accidentally isolated myself from the world. Along the way, my social circle completely faded. Between work, projects, and everything else, I stopped reaching out, phone calls turned into unanswered texts, and hangouts stopped happening entirely.

Now, I have my career and I'm proud of my professional growth, but my personal life is a blank slate. I’m based here in Multan, and I’m looking to connect with people around the Buch and DHA areas. If anyone is around, I'd love to grab a cup of chai, catch up, or just hang out.