21M, Non- Smoker, Need help from the Urologists regarding my urine issue
I’m 21M and I need some help, preferably from a urologist if possible.
I’m having a few issues which I want to share:
When I feel like peeing, I go and do it, and after finishing, I go back to sleep. But when I lie down and try to sleep, it feels like 6–7 drops of urine are still left and come out at the tip. So I get up again, push my scrotum up, and empty it completely. Even after doing that, the same thing happens again when I lie down. Sometimes, even after walking a few steps, I feel it. This usually happens when I drink more water after dinner, but I don’t want (like) to keep going to the toilet again and again to pee.
Also, I have a condition where sometimes I am unable to initiate peeing even when I want to. I need to concentrate at such times, or distract my mind (like thinking about something else - like what happened during the day so that I can make my brain forget that I'm peeing) to be able to start, and that usually works. I know this may sound like a joke, but this is what I do 😭, and I’m really concerned.
Also, I am unable to pee in a public toilet or anywhere when someone is around. I don’t know why. I’m not able to initiate it in such scenarios, but once it starts, I can pee easily. The problem is initiating it. I got to know from the Internet that this condition is called a shy bladder, where we can’t pee in public if I'm not wrong.
This has been happening to me for the past 1–2 years.
should I be concerned? Could this be because of masturbation or something else? I’m really concerned and afraid too ☹️
trust me, i'm a very anxious and an overthinking person. At home, I’m usually the first one to fall sick as my immunity is low, so I keep worrying ;could this be the beginning of something serious like cancer or something else?