u/amberlvr

so as the title says, i found out my boyfriend and i are different sexually. im very much into bdsm and harder topics/kinks but he’s... very vanilla/soft. obviously, there is no problem with liking that. but i feel like sexually, things are going to suck for me. i don't like soft, missionary stuff all the time. i get bored easily with that. and before you ask, YES, we talked about it. and he doesnt seem to be willing to try extreme things which is his right to do. but i feel like this is unfair for me now. i either have to accept it and do things vanilla style or ... leave ? but leaving over sexual differences feels so wrong to me. especially since he is EVERYTHING i want in a man, besides the sexual aspect of it all.

and i know sex isnt everything in a relationship, which is why im here asking for advice on it. i do like him and love our relationship outside of bedroom stuff. what do i dô?

so i have bad anxiety. my last appointment was a year or two ago. they said i need two fillings and a deep cleaning. that scared me, so i havent went since. but monday, i have an appointment. i decided i should just get this done with in order to avoid pain, bad cavities, bone loss etc.

thing is, im still extremely scared. im 22F. can someone tell me their experiences with FILLINGS and DEEP CLEANINGS, aswell as give me advice on what i should say to inform them on fears ? im shy, and often too scared to speak up.

and would they most likely allow headphones? i have wireless ones and id love to listen to music while they do my filling.

id also love reassurance that i will survive this and that nothing will hurt too bad. im almost tempted to cancel, so please help me out!

so i have to get a deep cleaning and let’s just say that im extremely scared. ive had fillings and a root canal before, but that’s it.

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im NOT scared of the discomfort that comes after the procedure.

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i AM SCARED of the procedure itself. does it hurt ? will i feel sharp , stinging pain ? the shots im not too worried about. please share your experiences :(

22F. my ex and broke up a long while back. he moved on really quick , and i eventually got a partner myself. wellll apparently he hates me all of the sudden , and now im being blocked by our mutual friends online. me and him ended on neutral terms. or so i thought ??? i had no hatred or anything, but he does and this is new to me. he subtweets me a lot ――― saying ive ruined his mood etc. im fine with him blocking me. but it feels like he’s talking bad of me to others ? and theyre blocking me for it ? or because they like him more i dont know. but anyways, it’s causing me REALLY BAD anxiety. i do suffer from depression and paranoia , so this is like hell to me ngl... im scared that everyone hates me or that theres bad stuff about me going around that arent true. 😞 how do i cope ? and yes, i do get of social media. i work and play games a LOTTTTT... but i like to scroll and interact with people because i dont have a social life or an in person friend besides my bf. 😅 how do i turn off the caring switch?

so i just returned to GAG yesterday. my last event was Halloween so, its been a long time...

yesterday, i saw that the green, haunted looking apple was in stock. i was SO excited because i really wanted it and i have so many coins due to my sisters ex back then. think is... the current was this. " 1🌸 " ... i have no idea what that is. and i was wondering if someone could help me GET that, help me grow a plant that will give that, or be open to trading/giving... PLEASE HELP bc i dont know anything about the game rn. so much has changed!! :(