u/amethysthh

estou passando uns dias em slz e queria comprar maconha mas n tenho contato por aqui, alguém pode ajudar?

Hi everyone!
I would really appreciate your opinion or any advice.
I have endometriosis and adenomyosis, and I’ve been on birth control pills for a long time. The last one I was taking (combined estrogen and progestin) worked really well for me. I didn’t get periods, I only had cramps occasionally (usually when I was very stressed or if I forgot to take a pill), and my libido decreased a little, but I guess every medication has side effects. Overall, though, it was a great experience.
The problem is that I’m moving to Italy soon (2 months), I'll live there for the next 2 years, and I wasn’t sure how easy it would be to keep getting my prescription there. From what I found online, I could bring about three months worth of pills with me, but after that I might need to see a gynecologist regularly to renew my prescription. Because of that, my doctor and I decided it would be easier to switch to a long-acting contraceptive.
My options were the Mirena IUD or Nexplanon. Since I also have adenomyosis, I chose the Mirena because it seems to have much stronger scientific evidence for treating adenomyosis, while Nexplanon doesn’t.
I had the IUD inserted last thursday. Even with anesthesia, the pain was almost unbearable. My blood pressure dropped, and I ended up in the ER. My doctor prescribed a few medications for the first five days, but today is day 7 and I’ve had pain every single day since the insertion, almost nonstop. Last night, I had to go to the ER again because of the pain.
I’m honestly terrified. Part of me wants to have it removed because I’m scared things could get worse after I move to Italy, and I don’t know how difficult it would be to get it removed there. On the other hand, I also want to give it a fair chance in case things improve. I know the adaptation process takes up to 6 months, and I don't have enough time to actually give a fair shot without worrying too much.
I’ve also started getting pimples on my face, which is really frustrating because my skin was completely clear before.
I have also started pelvic physiotherapy last week and I hope it helps me a bit.
I’ve considered trying Nexplanon instead, but now I’m scared I’ll end up having another bad experience.
I know everyone’s experience is different, but I genuinely feel trapped right now. I’ve cried so many times since thursday, and I don’t know what to do.
Has anyone experienced severe pain during the first week that eventually got better? If you switched from the pill to Mirena or Nexplanon, how did it go for you? And if anyone lives in Italy, I’d also love to know how difficult it actually is to get birth control prescriptions there.
Thank you so much for reading 🥹💗

Hi everyone,
I’m currently looking for an apartment in Padua and it’s hell.

There are many options in Arcella and they tend to have better value for money, but I keep hearing mixed opinions about the area.
Outside Arcella there are fewer options and they’re usually more expensive, and the apartments/rooms are way smaller.

Is Arcella really as bad as people say, or are there safer/better parts of the neighborhood?
Any advice is appreciated, thanks! :)

Amanhã é meu aniversário de 26 anos e assim como todos os anos, fico muito triste. Não sei por que, mas sempre fico mal, choro e quero que acabe. Minha mãe até tenta sugerir fazer um bolinho ou um almoço diferente, mas eu não quero, eu só quero que o dia acabe.

Eu sei que se comparar é errado, mas também é inevitável, então as vezes acabo pensando como não conquistei nada, vejo todos construindo ou tendo uma boa carreira, relacionamentos, família, se empenhando em atividades que gostam, tendo uma vida mais balanceada, vivendo coisas que pra mim parecem distantes (viagens, mudando de estado ou país) e parece que eu estou parada, sem conseguir fazer nada, envelhecendo, perdendo chances e vendo tudo a minha volta acontecer. Realmente não penso nessa comparação frequentemente, não só por que dou meu máximo para não me comparar, mas também por que o que prevalece são: tristeza, vazio, vontade de sumir e pensamentos sobre diversas experiências não tão boas que já passei/passo, mas hoje pensei nisso e quis mencionar, por que penso que pode contribuir com uma crença que não mereço comemorar meu aniversário, e consequentemente fazer a data sempre ser tão negativa pra mim.

Acho que tambem sinto que não sou memorável o suficiente, vejo amigos que se empenham nos aniversários uns dos outros, mas sinto que apesar de ter bons amigos, nenhum se importa o suficiente.

Talvez eu devesse aceitar minha mãe e meu pai fazerem algo, mesmo que seja só um almoço diferente, mas sempre sinto uma solidão quando somos só nós três (sempre almoço com eles, mas no meu aniversário o sentimento é diferente).. E também não quero que gastem dinheiro com essa besteira.

Enfim, desculpem pelo texto gigante, mas como é amanhã, estou pensando bastante nisso e precisava desabafar em algum lugar. 🥹