u/andrewmcclenning

I want to see the return of funerals...

Chanse

Spencer

Arasha

Trevor

Angela

And a super dark one, Keith, with Peter dressed up as Amanda (iykyk).

How about a video (Pit?) where they play each other;

Chanse as Spencer

Spencer as Courtney

Courtney as Amanda

Amanda as Shayne

Shayne as Angela

Angela as Noah

Noah as Tommy

Tommy as Trevor

Trevor as Ian

Ian as Arasha

Arasha as Chanse

Throwaway for obvious reasons.

I, 28M, moved into a 2-bedroom flat in London with Maya (25F) 10 months ago through mutual friends. Rent’s split 50/50, bills are even, and we had zero issues for the first few months. We get along on most non-political stuff — TV shows, cooking, etc - but over the last 6 months, she gotten really into "TikTok feminist" content.

I’m all for equality and I’ve always considered myself supportive of that. The issue started when almost every conversation about dating, work, or friends turned into generalizations about men.

Examples:

1. A guy cut her off in traffic and she spent 20 minutes saying “men are just entitled and dangerous by default.”

2. I mentioned my brother was struggling after a bad breakup and she said, “Well, maybe if men were emotionally competent this wouldn’t happen. He probably deserved it.”

3. She put up a poster in our living room that said “Men are trash, take out the garbage.” When I asked if we could keep shared spaces neutral, she said I was “centering male comfort over women’s safety.”

I tried to set a boundary 2 months ago. I told her: “You can believe whatever you want, but the constant ‘all men are X’ stuff makes living here uncomfortable for me. Can we keep it to people, not genders?” She said I was “fragile,” “mansplaining misogyny,” and that “men need to sit down and listen instead of demanding comfort.”

Last week was the breaking point. One of my cousins (Rob, 29M) stayed over for 2 nights while interviewing for jobs. Maya refused to be in the flat while he was here and left passive-aggressive notes on the fridge like “Lock your doors, predators live here.” Rob saw one and asked if he’d done something wrong. I was mortified.

I gave her an ultimatum: either we agree to not make gendered insults about half the population in our shared home, or I’m leaving when the lease is up in 6 weeks. She told me I’m “running away instead of doing the work” and that I’m “just another man who can’t handle being held accountable.” I’ve found a new place and I’m moving out early by breaking the lease and losing my deposit.

Mutual friends are split. Half say her views are “understandable given what women deal with” and that I’m overreacting. The other half say no one should have to live somewhere they’re constantly demeaned for their gender, and that if the roles were reversed it’d be called out immediately.

For clarity, I’ve had female bosses, friends, and exes I’m close with. This isn’t about disagreeing with feminism. It’s about living with someone who says my gender is the problem.

Throwaway, for obvious reasons.

I, 28M, moved into a 2-bedroom flat in London with Maya (25F) 10 months ago through mutual friends. Rent’s split 50/50, bills are even, and we had zero issues for the first few months. We get along on most non-political stuff — TV shows, cooking, etc - but over the last 6 months, she gotten really into "TikTok feminist" content.

I’m all for equality and I’ve always considered myself supportive of that. The issue started when almost every conversation about dating, work, or friends turned into generalizations about men.

Examples:

1. A guy cut her off in traffic and she spent 20 minutes saying “men are just entitled and dangerous by default.”

2. I mentioned my brother was struggling after a bad breakup and she said, “Well, maybe if men were emotionally competent this wouldn’t happen. He probably deserved it.”

3. She put up a poster in our living room that said “Men are trash, take out the garbage.” When I asked if we could keep shared spaces neutral, she said I was “centering male comfort over women’s safety.”

I tried to set a boundary 2 months ago. I told her: “You can believe whatever you want, but the constant ‘all men are X’ stuff makes living here uncomfortable for me. Bur she said I was “fragile,” “mansplaining misogyny,” and that “men need to sit down and listen instead of demanding comfort.”

Last week was the breaking point. One of my cousins (Rob, 29M) stayed over for 2 nights while interviewing for jobs. Maya refused to be in the flat while he was here and left passive-aggressive notes on the fridge like “Lock your doors, predators live here" or "future Trump in the making". Rob saw one and asked if he’d done something wrong. I was mortified.

I gave her an ultimatum: either we agree to not make gendered insults about half the population in our shared home, or I’m leaving when the lease is up in 6 weeks. She told me I’m “running away instead of doing the work” and that I’m “just another man who can’t handle being held accountable.” I’ve found a new place and I’m moving out early by breaking the lease and losing my deposit.

Mutual friends are split. Half say her views are “understandable given what women deal with” and that I’m overreacting. The other half say no one should have to live somewhere they’re constantly demeaned for their gender, and that if the roles were reversed it’d be called out immediately.

For clarity, I’ve had female bosses, friends, and exes I’m close with. This isn’t about disagreeing with feminism. It’s about living with someone who says my gender is the problem.