u/androidcommandroid

Losing it with task delegation

Hey, im struggling with a solution here. My store has gone through a bit of a turnover with a bunch of new green beans, I truly do understand my shifts leaning on me a little more as a tenured partner, but lately I feel they've been just making me do everything they can and more than I can handle. Like why the hell am I solo barring memorial day weekend after school rush when we have a 5 floor? But the issue is, if i go to my manager, it'll get back to those shifts who will quickly figure it out and then istg they'll be talking about how I'm on a "hate list" for being a "snitch". But if I dont go to someone theyre just gonna keep making me do everything. They'll just go to the back and be "doing the pull/count" for HOURS.

And then theres the issue of if I go to my GM theyll start banding against me cause I've gotten frustrated with them. Though I do have a witness to the unfair task delegation.

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u/androidcommandroid — 18 hours ago

Hi there, Im an uncle that lives with my niblings full time. My nephew, bless his little heart can be an absolute demon, just constant noises, not talking just noises. He recently got a baby sister (6m), and i understand the adjustments been hard so I've been spending more 1on1 time with him. He's very physical, so its alot of rough and tumble play. However, this has led to his behavior towards me being absolutely AWFUL, every game needs stopped because he starts hitting. He'll just come up to me and hit me, throw something at me, or push me. I want him to recieve that positive attention he needs but what am I supposed to do when EVERY action is one leading to negative attention? We try and do something fun, he immediately starts misbehaving. Like immediately.

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u/androidcommandroid — 15 days ago