u/apathetic-fallacy

This is my first time watching the show, so please no spoilers beyond Season 3!

Though I think I accidentally had it spoiled by Google results last night..

This is bothering me so much. Why does Elena keep saying she needs to choose between Stefan and Damon?

When did Damon even become an option?! She simply kissed him twice, months after Stefan pushed her away as the Ripper.

Even with Stefan starting to return to "normal" at the end of S3, she falls back into being open and vulnerable with him, sharing her worries and fears, and feeling safe with him while they dance.

Damon deflects. He's done irreputable things that have caused her a great deal of emotional turmoil. Killed Jeremy. Forced her to drink his blood so she'd turn against her wishes.

Damon is selfish and closed off.

Idk. It makes me irrationally mad lol. How is this even a choice for her out of the blue? It seems like people just suddenly started saying "you need to choose" despite her never giving up on Stefan even after everything he said and did to make her hate him.

It feels like she simply lusts after Damon, whereas her love with Stefan was safe, deep, secure. They spent months together while they were dating, nearly inseparable.

This bothers me so much.

I've always struggled with my eyebrows. I find them flat, and they weirdly turn down a lot when I smile (see 3rd pic; they were filled in for a wedding but it shows the downturn).

I never considered PMU because I thought they were dark and bushy enough (definitely realize that isn't the case now).

However, because they're flat, I don't know if it's possible to get an arch, unless PMU can help achieve that?

I'm low-maintenancd so would love to have no-fuss brows, but I won't lie, I'm scared; I like the natural look, and prefer thinner brows on myself. A lot of PMU artists I see online have very thick and dark brows posted.

Does anyone have suggestions on what type of PMU to look at for what I like? Microblading, powder brows, nano, hybrid?

And, any thoughts on if I can achieve something like the ones i included?

Also, my eyebrows grow pretty quickly. Is it safe to get them waxed with PMU for additional maintenance?

(I have considered a brow lift for them to sit like the second picture, but would prefer a non surgical route first).

Angry Baby Taveta Golden Weaver (aka borb) poseted by my local zoo

[S3] When did Damon become an option?

Eyebrow arch?