is he being tactical or an asshole? maybe tactical asshole
i hate to admit that the not getting my things back is bothering me more than i care to admit.
for context, my ex broke up with me twice (kinda). first instance was because he felt he “wasn’t enough” for me. he ended up texting me a week later after to return some stuff i left at his house as an excuse to see me and wanted to get back together. within that week on no contact, i decided to move to my dream city as nothing was holding me back.
anyways we are in contact for a month of us “trying” and he “dumped me again”. within the time of contact i had an amazon package accidentally shipped to my old address and asked if he could send it to me. after we broke up, a week went by and so i left a voicemail asking him to send it asap along with my address. he takes a week to reply saying he’s going to ship my stuff and send the info later. i was obviously going to reimburse him. the thing is he never ended up sending me the info but i thought no big deal as i only moved a few states away and knew shipping would only take three days as my mom who lives near him sent me a package that took that long.
fast forward to now, it’s been two weeks and nothing. no tracking info nor package. it’s frustrating because i’d like to get the things i bought for myself and it just doesn’t make sense why he would keep it. i know i could just replace it myself but if he has it and was willing to ship it, that’s easier for me. i keep seeing on the internet that it’s hardly ever about the stuff and more of a tactic to keep communication open.
thoughts?