Has anyone else carried a parent’s hurtful comment for years?

When i was in 11th my parents and i were travelling in a car. My father back then had an oppo phone i took it to click my pictures and the photos were not turning out well so i was like this phone isn’t good at all
So he was like your face should be good right for the photos to turn out good
That comment literally broke my heart so much and gave me an insecurity that has stayed with me ever since

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u/arfa71 — 2 hours ago
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I need 20lpa+ job! Please help me😭😭

I am doing my engineering from a tier 3 college
My 2nd year is about to end and i have solved 220 dsa question from striver a to z sheet, i have only picked high priority questions. Except heaps, graphs and big manipulation i have completed all the topics
I am aiming for 20lpa+ through off campus
After my exams i will learn OS, oops, cn and dbms from YouTube
I haven’t done a single project
Can you guys please tell me what type of projects should i do, how to build those project and what are the extra things i need to learn apart from this and should i aim for solving 400 dsa problems or start giving contests? I am very much confused😭

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u/arfa71 — 1 day ago

Is anybody running a faceless YouTube channel??

I wanted some suggestions to start a YouTube channel and have some questions regarding, like how long it’s been that you started your channel and how’s it going?
And are you doing it for side hustle or it’s your main income ?
And did it work for all of you in one go? And how did you grow .

What niche are you in?
How long did it take to get monetized?
How much are you earning now (roughly)?
Do you use AI, voiceovers, stock footage, or make everything yourself?
How many videos did you upload before seeing traction?
If you could start over, what would you do differently?
I am just starting and wanted your honest opinion
Thanks in advance !

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u/arfa71 — 23 days ago
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I have pigmented lips since 2 years due to the usage of lipstick(i use mamaearth matte one) and i am using nivea lip balm since 8 months during night and evening there is no reduction in the lip pigmentation

And also i have dark circles since 4 years i am using minimalist retinol cream since 8 months but there is no reduction at all

And also i have darkness around the mouth i am taking perfectli tablet and using melactus serum since 2 months but no change

Please tell me what to do for all these problems😭😭

u/arfa71 — 2 months ago