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Since I have a stellium in the 8th I heard a lot of times, that maybe I‘m not made for work, can just be a stay at home mom and so on. It‘s funny cause as a child I always said my dream job is to be a stay at home wife with kids cooking taking care of the house and that‘s it.

But I never met „my person“ till now (age of 28) and I feel like life wants me to grow on my own & make my own money.. it‘s literally pushing me as I‘m not meeting any man that would meet my standards. So my question is.. do you think 8th housers especially stelliums (I have 5 planets in aries in 8th) are made to make their own money or will it maybe come later in life that we will live from others ressources?

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It happend a lot to me, being on dating apps getting to know someone. Then also in real life, and then it came to talking about are sexual interests. I almost never met any man who was interested in this too. I think it‘s very difficult because most dom‘s are looking for fun or just a play relationship. But for me love devotion emotional depth is the most important thing before all of that. But still I crave to live my subby/bratty side as I never had the opportunity till now.
So where to find these „normal“ people but with a serious interest in bdsm?

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Hey everyone, I'm so happy I found this. I am an Aries Stellium (Sun, Moon, Mercury, Mars, Saturn) in the 8th. I was never able to find anyone who matches my intensity it's kind of sad. Can you relate?