Hate how I don’t get to stay comfortably at MY parents house because I’m CF
Basically in a few weeks my sister is having a baby shower in our home city. I was going to go sans husband (he wants to save PTO because we are in the process of buying a house) and stay at my parents house which is very large and accommodating. Normally it’s just my parents and my aunt living there. Well turns out my brother and his family are coming in and so are a family of my sisters friends — all staying at the house, with a multitude of kids. Where I will stay now hasn’t been taken into consideration even though I already bought plane ticket. I am tempted to be petty and be like “Oh well guess there’s no
room for me and my child free self at the inn, guess I’ll cancel my plane ticket then” and send my sister a gift in the mail. I could pay for three nights at a hotel but the aforementioned house buying has made everything expensive and I’m not super keen to spend money on that.
This also isn’t the first time my brother has swooped in with his wife and four kids and uprooted my spot and made it so I had to go and sleep on a couch or an armchair or something. Im 35 and just over it.