u/awkwardrelative1

Hej! Jeg skriver lige her da jeg gerne vil høre hvilke overvejelser I har gjort jer for (ikke) at bruge Ozempic?
Jeg har taget ca 25 kg siden Corona (hjemmekontor + snacks). Jeg har endda fået 2 børn hvilket ikke har hjulpet på det. Jeg vil lige starte med at sige, at jeg ikke er et disciplineret menneske, men føler at jeg så på en eller anden måde snyder ved at bruge sådan noget som Ozempic. Jeg har hele mit liv været åleslank og har altid snacket, så jeg synes jeg er “ny” i det her game ang. Vægttab og dermed endnu ikke bare skal opgive og bruge medicin. Udover det så synes jeg at alle omkring mig er så forskrækket omg bivirkninger. 
Så kære kvinder, hvad gjorde at I besluttede jer endeligt for at tage/ikke tage Ozempic? Har I delt med jeres familie/venner?

I have no one else to talk with about this topic and it just keep bothering me. So I am the oldest DIL, and always thought my in laws like/d me. I was born and grew up in diaspora (in a all western community), meaning I dont (and still dont) know of all the traditions and social rules there are. I would say that I'm good looking (average looks, tall, long thick hair). Im not that good at taking care of myself though so I can definitely see that I have let myself go esp after having kids.
Anyways, my husbands younger brother gets engaged. I like his fiance, she's so chill and relaxed. Slim, puts an effort in her makeup, hair and outfits. A week after their engagement my MIL is telling how the imam told my SIL that she should take her nose piercings off bc it's not suitable (in my culture this is still seen as something only wild women do), and I reacted right away (defended my new SIL that it was her right and islamically there isnt anything wrong about it. For the first time I see my MIL and husbands sisters exchange looks. And I feel like my eyes have opened since that moment.
We're often compared to each other and she's always winning (better looking, works her butt off = makes more money, very generous with said money, loveable, prays five times a day, knows the diff traditions and social rules from our culture). (I have also noticed that my husbands sister will give one of us a compliment knowing well that it would trigger the other) Meanwhile Im just the fat stay at home lazyass with two kids. Ive even distanced myself from my inlaws bc my husbands sister stole from me and they all took her side. So ofc they like my SIL even more now. Idk what I wanted with this. I just dont feel like I can talk to anyone in my life like a crazy jealous woman.