What's your old age plan for money management?
Saw some posts recently and it got me thinking. What is your plan for true old age financial management? (bills, taxes, investments) I'm talking about when we're in our 80s, 90s, when mental acuity or surprise acute health problems are more likely to be an issue.
I've been a self directed investor for 40 years, but over the next 20+ years, something will need to change. Am married, no kids. My wife is involved enough in our finances that she could step up to day to day management of things if I was not able to. Having an overly traditional "wife stays out of the finances" relationship has some big downsides as you age. But we are about the same age, so we should plan for what happens if both of us are not up to managing finances.
Someone that has a long term relationship with a good financial planner might be able to lean on that person. But then if your financial planner is 10-20 years younger than you, they may be retiring about the time you acuity is an issue.
People with kids obviously have a possible solution to that problem, but that presumes a good relationship, and kids who are capable of stepping up. My mom was pretty capable with her finances, but I stepped up to help. My in-laws were less capable, and my wife and I stepped up to help with that side.
One thing, financial firms now have provisions for you to designate a "trusted contact" for you in case they suspect that your acuity is slipping, or if they think you are being scammed. A younger family member or friend that you trust would be helpful for that. But that is just one small part of the picture.
Engaging an investment person might be a prudent thing at an older age, even most of your life you avoided people charging a 1% assets under management type fee. Maybe that is time to get an annuity if you don't have regular payment flow from something else.
Anybody else here have some thoughts?