u/b4rrakuda

In theory, ISFJ are not naturally curious.

If something is outside of their usual scope they won't bother looking into it. Sometimes, this is simply due to habits, if they have done something in some specific way, even if it is not efficient or they lack understanding of how it works they won't put efforts looking into it.

I was wondering if some of you define themself as curious, and don't recognise themselves in the previous description.

What would help you trigger your curiosity ?

Hello, I am not a good planners. I prefer unplanned adventures and random events.

It's natural for me to book my vacation last minute and improvise. My ISFJ wife is ok with this as long as I let her choose where we stay (quality, comfort etc...) so we are able to find a sweet spot.

But with my friends it's a nightmare, they sometimes book year in advance for some far destinations. My brain just cannot process this.

Having a deadline feels like a huge burden, and I already deal with this at work, so I actively avoid putting milestones on my personal life.

How do you deal with this ? SJ dominated world want you to plan for everything.