u/baasi_khichdi

There is one so absurd trend I saw where a person puts a text on his reel as

"when uou are cracking a dun/kasol/etc baddie and she said <something>(example: ara macho)",

to my surprise even girls are commenting "relatable" under this BS which makes me question how bad we have became, it used to be a time just few years back that pahadis were considered as men who respect women, who don't objectify them, wtf is this bullcrap going on ? Have we gone shoulder to shoulder with desis ?

Hey guys after 9 months of transplant and 6 prp sessions and using meds like minox, finax and serums my hairs are falling like crazy, right side of my scalp has become too sparse !

I did went through some very emotionally stressing period and discontinued meds for 1 month but its been 1 month since i started it again, is it normal to experience this level of shed ?

My doctor said don't worry they will grow back but its so much of shedding.

Hey guys, the recent trend of marrying outside the culture is looked upon just with one perspective i.e. people directly spew hate for people who are marrying outside the culture, many of the ladies in general who do so say that pahadi men lack certain qualities.

I would like to initiate a healthy discussion, let us pahadi men know what we can try to imbibe in us in general and try to achieve that can make us a better choice !

No judgments at all !

I am a 26M (5'6") pahadi guy, the place from where I am people are generally shorter, majority of my friends from there are around my height only.

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when I came out of my native for studies and job, I found how tall people are, I tried to do my best to be the best version of myself on the aspects which I could have control over, got a good career, an athlete body, a vo2max of 62, happy parents, good investments, great friends, etc. But somehow sometimes this height of mine makes me insecure.

I see a very high surge in cases like murders, thefts, rapes, pocso, etc. The fact that can be clearly seen is earlier these were mostly deeds of people from outside the state but now even our people are contributing to the culprit lists.

I think its the repercussion of cultural mixing, many feared it earlier that mixing dehati culture with pahadi culture will only deteriorate pahadi culture but our intellectual youth never agreed to it and here we are. I think we will see the death of a beautiful state within next 5 6 years.

Whom to blame ? I see three major factors

1. The government who never actually was competent enough to fix local issues rather just cared and acted for orders from central government.

2. The present youth who is nowhere considerate to their culture, majority just have pahadi tag because plain guys think it is cool, and social media fetches attention.

3. Parents, current parents failed terribly to imbibe pahadi spirit to their kids.

4. (Bonus point) Social media.

I am hopeless and can see that it can't be saved ! If anyone among you is hopeful do let me know how are you still hopeful ?