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Northeast friend always comparing his state and his people to mine (pahadi)

This is not intended for any hate towards Northeastern people, if there are any here. It's just for my fellow Pahadis that have you ever felt that you relate more to the mainland indians that the north east indians? This NE guy in my batch is liks 5'3 and I'm 5'10. He's two shades darker than me, and thinks north easterns are all fair skinned. He's always comparing my state to north eastern states and trying to belittle me. And don't know why always showing me pictures of NE women who are fair skinned to prove that they are all good looking? Fo they have some kind of superiority complex? I don't take him seriously because i have so many things to do so while scrolling randomly thought of sharing my experience with someone from North east and I'm kinda drunk rn too so I don't know if you guys are gonna mock me or relate to this or you'll probably ignore this post but that's all i had to share guys. Peace ✌️🥰💘💖

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u/yashica00 — 9 hours ago
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Everything is fishy 🐠 in the Babita Pandey (24yo) case fake travel permit, she lied to her mother and went camping with two unknown men: Harmanpal Singh(23, USN, U.K.) and Harmanpreet Singh(23, U.P.) Both men confessed they were heavily drunk that night and that there was a fight between them.

Backstory-

Babita Pandey (an MBA student) went missing on 29 May from Dayala Bugyal Uttarkashi She lied to her mother and told her that she was going with her female friends, but she actually went with two men whom she had known for only two months.

That night, both Harmanpreet and Harmanpal were heavily drunk. According to their statements to the police, they had a fight with Babita because she was listening to music loudly and they told her to lower the volume. During the conflict, she went outside the tent at 11 pm on 29 May.

The two male companions waited until the next evening (30 May 2026) to inform local authorities about her disappearance, creating a delay of nearly 18 to 24 hours.

The Family’s Allegations

Babita’s brother and family have publicly rejected the companions’ narrative. They filed a formal complaint alleging that the two men may have been forcing Babita to consume alcohol against her will. In interviews, her family raised suspicions that a major argument or altercation occurred inside the tent because of the drinking, causing Babita to flee into the forest out of fear.

There are many theories regarding this case:

**1. Some animal attacked her/she fell from a cliff-**This is completely bogus. If an animal had attacked her or she had fallen from a cliff, it would have left a heavy mess of blood. With 150 search personnel, trained dogs, and locals involved, they would have found some trace of her.

2. She got kidnapped / trafficked

Someone spotted her drunk at night roaming in the forest, kidnapped her, and trafficked her.

The two unknown men delayed reporting her missing by more than 20 hours. They might have had a hand in the kidnapping.

3. They both tried to rape her

Both Harmanpreet and Harmanpal gave statements to the police saying they had a fight over loud music 📢 But what if they were forcing her to drink Alcohol and tried to rape her? She may have run away from them into the forest, after which they tracked her down and did something far worse. The 20+ hour delay could have been used to destroy every bit of evidence.

4. She ran away with someone

Another theory is that she ran away with someone and is living with him possibly a love angle that her parents were against and that she planned all of this.

But she did not come from a rural background; she is from an upper-middle-class family and was pursuing an MBA from a private college. Why would she need to do all this? If her parents trusted her enough to allow her to go camping alone at night, it shows she was not restricted at home. She was an independent young woman. According to the police, her phone, backpack, and personal belongings were all left completely untouched inside the tent.

**She failed as a child and had survival instincts below room temperature**

[Before adding this point i want to tell you I support the idea of any women can take her life decisions as per her will. But the thing is we live in india everyday we witness horrible cases against women, small girls even babies. So having common sense is necessary which can save themselves from falling into trouble]

Now Who the fk goes camping in the jungle at night with two completely unknown men she met online and as the only female in the whole group? What was she even thinking?

She knew her mother would never have allowed her to go camping as the only girl with two unknown men, so she lied and said she was going with her female friends. Even a teenager has more sense than that about how unsafe India can be. She should have been alert enough to think: what if something went wrong how and where would her family even look for her?

What do you guys think? Share your views..

u/Pahadi_Rajma — 1 day ago
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Today is Ghee Sakranti in Uttarakhand. There is a folklore in the Garhwal, Uttarakhand that those who don’t eat ghee on Ghee Sankranti will be reborn as snails 😃 🐌 in their next life. 😷 So, guys, remember to eat ghee and safeguard yourself. 👻🐌

u/Pahadi_Rajma — 3 days ago
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🙏 Urgent Local Assistance Needed — Dehradun

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We’re looking for a reliable and compassionate person who can assist an elderly couple in Doon over the next few days/weeks.

The aunty, 71, has suffered a serious hip/back fracture and is expected to undergo surgery at Max Hospital, Dehradun, once the required CGHS and medical approvals are completed. Her husband is simultaneously undergoing treatment for Stage 4 cancer, so they could genuinely use someone dependable by their side.

They are visiting the hospital again tomorrow and may need help with:

• Accompanying them to hospital visits

• Coordinating with doctors/hospital for surgery scheduling

• Being present on the day of surgery and, if needed, during evenings/recovery

• Keeping their child in the US informed and helping coordinate on their behalf

This is primarily about having a responsible local person who can be there when family cannot.

Paid assistance is absolutely fine. If anyone in this group can help—or knows a trustworthy person/caregiver/patient attendant who can—please DM me.

Would really appreciate you forwarding this to someone who may be able to help. 🙏

#SHUKRANA #SHUKRANA.OFFICIAL

u/CountyOpening2329 — 3 days ago

Is there a Kumaoni word for सहेली? In Nepali it's called साइली right?

I know the lyrics from the song Timro Nai Maya Lagdacha Saili by Jhalakman Gandharv:

आज रे माइले भातई रे खाओ मो जस्तो गाभा को

तिमीले साइली नगरे पानी मो जस्तो जाभा को

What's the local Kumaoni pronunciation for Saheli?

What are some other words for a beloved female?

Edit:

If you can't see the full post please turn reddit translation off

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u/carnalcarrot — 4 days ago

A distinction between the (chronically online) youth of Himachal and Uttarakhand that I noticed over time I spent on X, Instagram and Reddit.

NOTE: Chronically online youth is different from the "on ground" actual youth voice. Here chronically online means the ones who are regular reel scrollers/posters and spend most of their time on internet. The time spent can be for good (studying or research) or for bad (gooning)

As the title says, I have noticed this one glaring difference between the chronically online between Himachali youth and Uttarakhand youth,

Himachali (CO) youth are more nationalist-a little towards hindutva coded
Uttarakhand (CO) youth are more commie coded

sorry if anyone is offended by the commie remark, if it makes any better I'm from Uttarakhand so I'm kinda including myself too (though I hate that) and if you're offended by the Hindutva remark then I'm sorry its just something I have observed from all popular social media apps.

I wonder what makes them so different?

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u/ToxicWeave — 4 days ago
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Nepali Khas Kshatriya / Chhetri DNA results [Harappaworld + G25 + Distances + Photo + Location]

Result of a Jharra Khas Chhetri genetics (surname Thapa Chhetri) individual from Kaski District, Central-West Nepal.

All 4 grandparents are Chhetri (Pahadi Kshatriya). AncestryDNA tested. Closest pops: rajputs from uttarakhand, nepali bahuns, pahadi uttarakhand brahmins (Brahmin Mondal), gilgit brokpas and baltis from AJK.

u/MightyRusty1234 — 5 days ago
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Happy Independence Day 2026, 🇮🇳🇮🇳

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1.4+ billion people

28 states & 8 Union Territories

22 scheduled languages

19,500+ languages and dialects

6 major religious communities

700+ tribal communities

3,000+ castes & 25,000+ sub-castes

6,00,000+ villages

5,000+ years of civilisation

100+ festivals celebrated across the country

7,500+ km of coastline

10+ distinct geographical regions

8 classical dance forms

6 classical languages

100+ GI-tagged food & cultural traditions

And yet...

One Constitution. 🇮🇳

One Tricolour. 🇮🇳

One India. 🇮🇳

From Kashmir to Kanyakumari, from Kutch to Kohima, millions of differences, but one beautiful idea called INDIA.

Happy Independence Day! 🇮🇳❤️

u/CseCuriosity — 5 days ago

In pahad clash broke about sometime between splendor sawar neeHangs & kanwariyas the hostage of hostilities between these two uncivilized clique is our region unfortunately

u/khas07uk — 4 days ago
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Justice is still awaited for our sister, Kiran Negi, and our brother, Dilbar Negi

Chhawala R@pae and Murder - Our Sister Kiran Negi (19 year old) was a victim of a brutal and inhumane murder and rape in February 2012 - months before the Nirbhaya case in December 2012

"As per the case details, they abducted Kiran and raped her for three days. After sexually assaulting her, they poured acid on her face and in her eyes too. They inserted screwdriver in her eyes and broken bottle pieces in her private parts. The police recovered her body on February 14 in a field of Rewari, Haryana. There were cigarette and iron rod scars on her body too."

read more at: bnblegal. com/news/9-reasons-why-supreme-court-acquitted-3-convicts-in-brutal-2012-chhawla-gangrape-and-murder-case/

Her heartbreaking story will leave you devastated, upset, and angry. Yet, what did our state government do? Nothing.

The accused were apprehended later got bail.

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The same injustice must not be forgotten in the case of our brother Dilbar Negi (20 year old), who was burnt alive in February 2020 because of his Hindu identity.

Two innocent lives. Two heartbreaking stories. And questions that still demand answers.

Justice for Kiran Negi.
Justice for Dilbar Negi.

Read more about their cases and their stories. Their lives must not be forgotten.

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u/Inevitable-Table-823 — 5 days ago

An American in the land of Gods 🍎✨

This is an appreciation post for a man who traveled from the United States in the early 1900s and changed the fate of the Himalayan region forever—turning an isolated mountain belt into one of India’s most prosperous apple-producing powerhouses.
Samuel Evans Stokes (later known as Satyananda Stokes) was a 21-year-old American Quaker from Philadelphia who first arrived in India in 1904. Captivated by the beauty of the Himalayas, he eventually settled down in Thanedar, near Shimla—which served as the summer capital of British India.
Seeing the local population struggling with poverty and a lack of cash crops, Stokes recognized the region's climate was ideal for fruit cultivation. He wrote back home to his mother in the US, who sent him a batch of Starking Delicious (Red Delicious) apple saplings as a gift.
Those initial saplings sparked a agricultural revolution:
An Economic Transformation: Stokes distributed saplings to local farmers, taught them modern horticultural techniques, and helped establish supply chains. Within a few decades, Shimla and the surrounding Himachal region transformed into an "apple goldmine," driving widespread prosperity. Today, these apples are locally known as Royal Delicious.
A Unique Place in History: Beyond agriculture, Stokes deeply integrated into the local culture, learned Pahari and Sanskrit, converted to Hinduism, and actively joined the Indian Independence Movement. He holds the distinction of being the only American imprisoned by the British for participating in India’s freedom struggle.
His legacy lives on today—his descendants still reside in Thanedar, tending to the original family orchards. Just wanted to share this fascinating piece of apple history with everyone here! 🍎✨

u/Moist_Mortgage4684 — 6 days ago
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People like this zubair katwa are the reason behind racism against India. Iske thumbnail dekho.. bhad#va apni behno ko to burkhe se bahir nahi ane deta hoga.. koi nepali local hi iski bhel tod de..

u/Dudh_Wali_Kulfi — 7 days ago

Racism?

So yesterday I was js heading back home from the gym and I was on my scooty and I had a spat w a cab driver and he thought I abused him or sum but I didn't so things escalated I js hit n all bs that was fine till then until he started saying ki ye nepali Chinese nd wht not idhr aake hungama krte h ye pahadi inhe bhagao yha s and to the point ki bs wo kheta It would've been fine ki lodu gawar h n all but I literally saw ppl agreeing onto that shi It's fkin weird being called chinki nd shi tho I made peace w it but to this extent ki log isse seriously leke violent hote h

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u/Nice-Pin-3500 — 6 days ago
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View of the Dhauladhar ranges from Palampur, Kangra

This was back in March this year. Where the winter snow meets the golden sun. View of the fresh snow after heavy rainfall from my home in Palampur, Kangra.

u/One-Wealth6055 — 7 days ago

Seeing the pathetic situation in Uttarakhand and the Indian political system, urge to settle abroad is increasing day by day.

Seeing sad state of politics in india and our state, day by day urge to move abroad increasing. Thing is as someone from middle class family, we pay tax, with our tax politicians corrupt people fill their pocket. We don't get anything. Nothing which make us proud to being indian.

After seeing Uttarakhand and Uttarakhand politics issues in recent years, we see nothing changing. Situation only becoming worse.

Anyone you choose in power is corrupt thing is in india people only join politics, bureaucracy for corruption.

They take your votes in name of ideology religion at end of day end goal is money. We common people are just viewers who pay for this circus.

Seeing Uttarakhand, selfish society and where this state, country going and i think it is waste of time to involve in this issues.

Best thing is ignorance. Stop caring about these things. Focus on yourself and move out of country. We got only one life. We deserve better.

u/antrikse — 6 days ago

Marriage goals 😓

I really wanna get married to a pahadi himachali guy in the future. I come from a well off family but I'm earning on my own despite being 19 rn(not that much but just started earning), if there's a guy from rich/well off family from himachal please text me 😓🥀🥀 I really love himachal, i went there last year and I still couldn't forget the beauty, the rain, the atmosphere, the calm, I was so overwhelmed and emotional when I was returning...🥀😓😓please lmk if you're himachali guy and earning good (I am not asking for your money just to know that you've got a business mindset or not that you know how to make money, cause I love the aura of businessmen😍🙏 don't hesitate to dm me

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u/AromaticLink5522 — 7 days ago