u/bahd_helts

I feel like I genuinely won't be happy in a relationship with a woman if her attraction to me is non-existent in comparison, and there's no way I'm gonna somehow find myself the 0.1% woman who is both heterosexual and genuinely likes sex.

So I'm just curious if there's any strides that the scientific community is making to make some kind of suppliment or whatever that I could use to lower my libido or attraction. It seems like the things we have right now either require me to transition or is very bad for my health. I'm a young adult male

And I'm also curious what your guys' plan is if you believe in WANIM. Do you plan to opt out of relationships entirely or what. I plan to just opt out if I can't find a way for this to work.

"Bruh," said the pooplord.

like im talking hormones, or meds or something so i can reduce my sexual attraction to them to the level they have for us

albeit difficult but very possible. you dont have to feel hurt from women not being into men if you stop upholding relationships.

obviously libido isn't something we men can control, so theres nothing wrong with jacking off or whatever in your free time, but you dont actually have to interact with real women in the context of a relationship. ofc you can still make friends with them but its definetely helped a lot in knowing in myself that i dont have to be dissapointed or feel depressed knowing i wont be loved back, because im not expecting it.

even if the oppurtunity to be in a relationship presents itself (like a friend confessing to you or something like that), i think that unless youve come into peace with the fact that she wont be into you the same way you're into her, it is very important that you decline. by not expecting anything, you lose nothing.

i was sad when i found this subreddit at first but realizing this has made me quite happy. there really is more to life than just relationships, and if you really want to simulate the feeling of a woman desiring you theres some stuff over at r/gonewildaudio and some porn out there if you're into that