u/baini_namaskar

I saw a conversation here and it had me thinkings, what's the situation of your opposite gender friendship in late 20s and 30s? Because mostly the opposite gender friendship is just dead at that point.

During schooling, college and around mid 20s, you have friends from opposite gender, some very close that you hang out with, call, chat, share your things, meet, go to restaurants and movies as friends.

But I believe towards late 20s people start to part ways and segregate themselves based on genders, Females only hang out with few of their female friends and men only hang out with few of their male friends.

That girl or boy you were friends with, the relationship becomes thinner and thinner, the distance grows.

Not that you aren't friends anymore or lose complete contact but theres no frequent calls or chat or hanging out.

Specially after marriage when spouse and kids get involved, the friendship just dies and you guys become college ko sathi ho and things limit to hi hello only. Because your spouse also becomes your friend, and they replace your friends. Your wife or husband hanging out with another girl or boy from college, going out, having calls chats can create problems.

Except for casual conversation, hi hello, group meetings, I have never seen opposite gender friendship continuing in late 20s or 30s, especially after marriage.

So what's your situation or opinion on this?

I came back after here after a long time, and the subreddit is more active than ever which is good. But I see some obvious GenZ and school kids pretending to be millennials and writing answers and comments as such.

mod le aba nagarikta nabhaye SLC ko certificate check garna start garnu paryo.

What is ragebait?

Ragebait is content deliberately designed to make people angry, annoyed, or outraged so they will react. Ragebait has a hint of trolling, humour, sarcasm, plausible deniability.

As we are familiar how the world ragebait is thrown so commonly but the word has lost its meaning. People are using it stupidly without knowing the real meaning and intent.

Somebody writes anything controversial, sensitive or presents a different perspective people immediately go ragebait ragebait, not only this definition of ragebait is wrong, but it also invalids OPs opinions for being not genuine and invalidates them.

"Balen government le kehi garcha jasto malai lagdaina for this this reasons". Labeling it as ragebait derails genuine discussion and invalids others opinion.

Then come idiots of the first grade, the cowards who hide behind the mask of ragebait to share most hateful and bigoted opinion, because they are too much of a coward to stand up to their beliefs and defend what they said. So they label their dumb opinions as ragebait.

"Moti keti naramro hunchan" this is not ragebait but straight up hate comment.

"Afulai chubby healthy bhandai ma, it doesn't make you any less of an overweight person. Ask the chair you are sitting on which is about to die of suffocation if it finds you healthy or not." this is ragebait.

- Upvote a post or comment if you find it helpful. It's not YouTube comment section, reddit is a discussion based website and upvote and downvote drives the discussion and community.

- Say thank you if someone wrote a helpful comment to your post. I see too many helpful comments not even upvoted or replied a thank you with even by the person who asked. Someone took a time and effort to help you, and you can't even say a thank you. What a shame.

- Share a link of the source which others can read too and makes your comment more credible.

- Don't be a runche and post screenshot of comments of someone you had argument with. bacha le rudai mumy yesle malai class ma motey bhanyo bhanna gako jasto. If you can't handle a discussion or an argument don't get into it, and don't post screenshot of their comments crying hoping that people will agree with you.

- Learn to type like a person who went to school. Use punctuations, paragraphs. Anyone who is above 18 and writes tw, yll, spams emojis should be ashamed of themselves for wasting their parents effort and money in school.

- Learn to share your opinion or disagree without being abusive, behave like a civilized and educated person.

- Stop labeling people for sharing opinion different than you. I see yo party ko IT cell, tyo party ko IT cell, indian agent, Chinese agent, American dalal being thrown so commonly here just because someone has a different opinion or presents a different perspective. Not everyone has to think like you.

- If you aren't well learnt into a topic, you can share your opinion but don't argue or harass other users. Basic knowledge pani hudaina gali gardai bhideko hunchan.

- Spamming gifs as a reply or to make yourself look funny is just pathetic and unoriginal. It shows that you have no original thought to write even one sentence.

- Everyone has different opinion and experience in life than you, learn to accept it. Just because you had one set of experience doesn't mean everyone has it, doesn't mean they are wrong.

You go to the default subreddits or subreddits of other countries, neighboring countries, they are so insightful, funny, polished, and you come to Nepali subreddits, it's just garbage. Low quality posts, comments, opinions and ideas, the difference is right in your face.

Heck if you take nepali subreddit from 7-10 years ago and now, compare the posts and comments, even the 20-25 olds from 7-10 years ago were writing such meaningful and funny posts and comments. Teenagers and early 20s from 10-15 years ago were smarter than their counterparts today depsite growing up with limited resources and information.

A generation who grew up with mobile phone and internet with worlds of information writes like a kid, doesn't have basic information, can't even understand a joke, types like a 13 year old, can't read one full paragraph without getting distracted, comments in one liner, can't think of anything original but memes.

make one layered comment or a joke, it will fly over their head. You have to explain the joke. You have to spoonfed them everything because their brains can't just process the most basic things.

License ko re trial kati din ma dina paucha, check garna audaina website ma, they have to make a post here asking it, but gyan chai desh kasari chalaune, economy kasari banaune, diplomacy kasari garne ko pelirako hunchan comment ma.

25 year old, thinking and behaving like a teenager. A teenager behaving like a 12 years old.

only 10% of the GenZ are actually matured in respect to their age, rest are still mentally stuck in their childhood.

Come to think of it, Nepali subreddits aren't trash, it's because this GenZ generation is trash.