r/Nepali_Millennials

Kura chai k ho vanda , Mero chai small bussiness cha ani customer haru lai QR share garirakhna parcha , ani hijo chai achanak mero bank account freeze vayo ani bank ma kura garda on going investigation bhanera bhannu vayo ani police station ko number dinu vayecha ani kura bhujhdai jada chai k raicha vane, Itahari ko ekjana ko account hack vako raicha ani tei account bata sabai lai " Oi malai urgent paisa chayo 500 haldena" bhanera msg pathako raicha ani tesma QR chai merai QR thiyo! Ani jun manche ko hack vako thiyo tei manche le police station ma report gardeko raicha . Ani I was shocked ki kasari mero kina mero QR bata paisa lidaicha? Malai fasauna lai hoki? I don't know what to do, aba maile nai scam gareko jasto potray vairako cha! Jun manche ko hack vako thiyo tyo snaga kura vaisakyo uha le sabai proof share garisaknu vako cha! Please help guys k garne kata jane kei thachaina!

I am 19M currently studying some shit program in TU

that has neither to do anything with my life nor to do anything with career just stuck out of nowhere.So let me give.a little context I live in my own house with my mom and so called dad who is a child abuser and womanizer.

He always perpetuates violence to my mother I have been. watching this for more than a decade He has a very. shity habit of listening to people of this sick society.

For some reason they always somewhat tell very bad things and irrelevant things about my mother and mother side of family like maternal side(even though they are at their worst) but somewhat me and my mother were subjected to domestic violence and assault for ages like more than a decade.Now last time what happened was when we were ready to eat out breakfast out of nowhere he came and started to eat like bakasur even though he rarely earns any shit and started to complain about cleanliness(even though his main issue was to provoke us)then my mother also shouted can't you see we are working day in and day out for more than week in court we don't even have time to eat meal and you unemployed pimp complaining about nothing always provoking us .Now slowly the moment start to build up I was studying in next room for my exams of 2nd year All of sudden He started to yell and make loud noise so all neighbours can hear that there's a quarrel among us .I went to tell him don't make loud noise discuss it peacefully but he instead pushed me and slapped me.

Now I thought of all like more 20 years of exploitation assault violence and financial theft of my mothers wealth by him and his family(mother in law's).I tightened my right hand fist ran towards him and straight up punched him in his face near to eye and it got all that blue now he started to beat me but my mother saw him she also grabbed that piece of shit and we both united and beat the hell out of him.For like 5 to 6 minutes lagataar and then he said let's discuss today I will see both of you I will discuss divorce we said yes happily we are ready to accept that but his usual shit first kutne pitne Ani khuuta dogera maafi magne but now this time it's too much we havent talked since that incident we have a three story house two on rent and in one we live we live in one room and he just comes home.late night and sleep.and runs away before we see him a little coward.Also in that he made me emotionally hurt that you are not my child

ta bhoteko baccha bhaera bhoteko bewara dekhayeko ho which refers to my friend of my mom in early days but nothing like that since she choose to marry this narcissist idiot also for some reason his family considers themselves religiously superior they wear some black chit in their neck and associate themselves with Hinduism.I think they are criminals who should be imprisoned.Now after all that

I can neither focus on studies I cannot think exams are coming no prep I think my life is ruined for nothing so what am I to do I have been really mentally stressed

So I just wanna ask a simple question is it only me who has to deal with this or three are similar people like me who has to deal with narcissist idiot and abuser father in Nepal Would like to hear from all of you just for my conformity thanks for giving time.to.mt story .

Female puppy for adoption. She turns 3 months next week.

She's with me at the moment. Name's Whiskey.

Contact Details in the post 👇

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Have we normalized labor exploitation so much that no one talks about it anymore?

Or are the journalists busy with finding the lost wife of the husband or catching them red hand?

Are we so busy gossiping and dancing on TikTok we have become so unaware of reality?

Government has clearly mentioned the minimum salary of 17k rupees, but has it even got implemented?

Vulnerable people who are desperate for the job are heavily exploited , making them work for upto 12 hours a day for minimal salary of 12k-15k.

In this economy , how can a person survive with this money? And more so, the precious time that could've been utilized for other stuff that will help a person grow in life is completely stalled.

And these greedy mofo advertise proudly mentioning salary of 12k for 12 hours of labor a day.

Why aren't we talking about this anymore??

How can a person survive in this economy with so much of fraud and exploitation??

And let's talk about job centre scams.

First a family is pushed into poverty lacking Basic amenities to even survive and when a person tries to better their life , get a job , they have to go through hefty process where they send their application to multiple job Centers, where mostly they're scammed for money, and even if they do get a job, comes another Exploration where with that salary , there's neither enough to survive, nor can have growth for future.

What's the government doing??????

Well, unmarried millennial here, never had someone till now as well, no one to share kura, away from home for job just to manage my normal expense , the pressure of hope of parents to do well, and here is son , frustrated to vent , trying everything he can! The taunts of relative to family! I just wish i could take my family away from the toxic relatives ! Malai ta uniharu le kei vaneko vaye ni kei lagdaina, behora nai ustai lagxa! Mom le man ma linu hunxa , tyo sochera aafu lai heavy hunxa! Ur son is trying is very bestt !!!!! Aru ta k nai vanam!

I think there are more numbers of Male gold digger vs Female gold digger I’ve witnessed many Nepalese men look for women with higher standards and expect large sum of Dowry . Is it only me who witnessed it ?

I wonder how it would be to find love after 30 and settle down. For those who did, how did it happen and what were the challenges/similarities than it was pre 30. Also what's the age difference between you and your partner? I want to know for those who met their spouse past 30 without arrange marriage, so those who had a partner before 30 and then married later on this is not for you.
The reason is arrange marriage is a convenience for those who's parents have contacts but for those who don't they have to rely on themselves and past 30 can be difficult so i heard and I'm trying to understand what challenges i could face later on. For both genders. Thank you.