u/friday_night__

Cross posting ban garnu paryo, mods haru. Yo subreddit kholyo ki Khali cross posting gareko useless post haru matrai aucha dherai, front page ma pani jaile crossposted post haru aako dekhchu yo subreddit bata.

those crossposted posts are not only polluting the subreddit with spams, but also taking away the essence of the community and robbing the engagement and discussion from here to their useless subreddit created just because some dumb kid want to become a mod.

Subreddit pani kati dherai kholeko, hey Bhagwan. Hagne mutne sabai ko Naam ma dead subreddit kholera baseko chan, kati rahar ho moderator huna yiniharu lai.

Bichar garnu paryo mods bro haru le ho visaye ma.

Euta sanstha bacheko thyo janta ko biswas bhako, tyo pani bigat kehi mahina ko gatibidhi le swaha hudai cha.

Jindagi ma yesari gali khako thiyena which I heard in last 2 months, for merely making criticism of Balen, or Rabi or RSP, or trying to present a different point of view.

Lessons of Nepali people.

- Make no politician or celebrity your god. They are humans, just like you and me. They just happened to be at the right place at right time, Bhagwan le swarga bata pathayeko Haina. Appreciate them when they do good, criticize them when they do bad. They aren't god beyond criticism or with no faults.

- Don't put blind faith in anyone. Learn to take responsibility and accept own mistakes instead of blaming others or expecting others to come and fix things for you. Blind faith comes from lack of accountability, making excuses and blaming others.

- Don't make emotional judgement, always prioritize practicality over emotion, it will be helpful in the long run. Nepali people are very emotional. Makha parna pani ber hudaina, risauna pani ber hudaina. Be practical.

- bheed tantra, bheda tantra, mod mentality has ruined Nepal. If the bheed in Nepal says X, take a step back and think from Y perspective too. Always remember this bheedtantra gave rise to KP Oli.

- stop thinking in black and white. If the person isn't thinking X, he must be supporter of Y. He must be Y ko fan, Y ko paid person, Y ko jholey, Y ko IT cell etc. People have wide varieties of opinions and ideas based on their own life experiences, the don't necessarily have to be on someone pay roll or connected to them.

- learn to make a neutral rational and fair criticism and judgement as per your knowledge and experience. Keep researching new things, learn new information, learn to listen to others.

And most important, hoolmool andolan ma kaile najanu, you never know what might happen. Your so called heroes, leaders, activists will move on, the country and the world will forget in a month, but you and your family will have to live with the pain for the rest of your lives.

Edit:

Here with this post I'm not trying to say "dekhis maile bhaneko thik ho". Or "Balen is the worst".

All I'm saying is, we Nepali should stop being so emotional and petty about everything, we should learn to approach things from practical point of view.

Yo sarkar ma ramro manche haru pani chan, naya josh, naya aasha cha, kehi ramro garos bhanne aasha ra samarthan cha.