u/Some-Tomatillo3473

kasto unfair hai yo sabbai kura haru. afno parents lai chhodera janu rey? ani aafnai parents jasto garnu rey tara buhari ley matra. jwai saab chai yearly ek choti tika thapna aaunu hunchha ani pugyo. dashain, tihar ma sano dekhi afno ghar celebrate gareko hunchha ani bihe pachhi sabbai jana lai sodhera, ani afno ghar janey rey diusa or sajha tira afnai mummybaba ko haat bata tika lagauna. tara yo kura arko partner lai kina applicable hudaina? aba yeti bhandaima feri man hater bhanne lagchha hola tara women lai bhako kura chai? tyo chai ignore garnu? kina? traditions bhayera? kasto traditions ho yeuta party lai matra dherai favor garne?

ani separately basnu parchha bihe pachhi bhanne kura koi kt ley gareko chha bhane chai "ghar futaune bhae" bhanne ani yetro barsa chhori haru ko ghar futeko chai?

yesto ramri rarmri hunchhan yr. luga ni chittikka, educated..katai khot lagaunu mildaina, ma at least bi hunu parne. gako runa :((

have a separate bank account nobody knows about (yeah, not even your parents or partner) and always keep some savings.

not everyone needs to know your exact salary. if you earn 75k, saying 65k is okay sometimes. not because you are abandoning anyone, you are still helping with bills and everything but once people know the full amount, the expectations also go up (i have seen people get questioned for every rupee they spend or why they didnt send more money home even when they were trying their best) aba afno family, friends kasto hunuhunchha tehi anusar bujhera bhanda bhayo.

i have noticed our regular diets don't really contain that much zinc, magnesium or even calcium sometimes.

So how do y'all manage it?

what does your daily diet look like? and do you guys also take supplements?

i apply the same "beauty with brain" stereotype in reverse. its a small way of pointing out how silly that label sounds when you flip it.

I went to buy cold coffee and checked Amul first and it was for around NPR.85 and then i saw Delish and thought ok lets try the nepali brand this time and i checked the price and it was for around NPR.150 and then i did the calculation and thought that i could get two bottles of Amul cold coffee if i added 20 rupees extra, instead of buying Delish cold coffee.

I do understand that brands like Amul have massive economies of scale and all of that. But at the same time, from a normal consumer perspective, 140 or 150 rupees still feels expensive especially when there is another option right beside it for almost half the price.

Now, i know how difficult it is for local businesses to survive in the nepali market. But even when we want to, we cannot always support nepali brands. Sorry belun dai

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hamro ghar bata jungle 10,15 mins jati ma chha ani hami sano ma jungle gayera kati dherai lyauthem. kimbu ta bato ko chheu ma kati dherai rukh haru ani kalilo aap ko paat ma halera khanthem. bharkhar samjheko kati dherai years bhaye chha yo fruits nakhako :((

aba ghar ko bela sabbai rukh lagauchhu yo

We Met On Reddit, and it started from this sub. He texted me and he was very respectful, kind of intriguing. I don't know what was wrong with me but i accepted his request and we started talking and then we moved to calls on telegram.

The first time i heard his voice, i paused. I wasn't expecting it to feel like that. He had this calm, soothing voice, very comforting. easy to listen to.

Even with both of us being busy,, we kept talking, a lot, 24/7. The kind of early phase connection where you always have something to say. even when we were cooking or doing dishes, we were still on call, just talking about everything and nothing.

He used to sing my favorite songs maybe thats probably when i got attached without even realizing it. I usually dont get attached to people that easily but this felt different. maybe because it was all through voice and text, just personality and presence. it felt thrilling in a way i cannot even explain.

It went on like that for around 10 months, then suddenly, it ended.

But the strange part is i never saw his face, and i still dont know how he looks, his surname or anything about that guy. its weird because we live in the same city, same place, and yet complete strangers. but he knows me, he has seen my pictures, he knows my full name, where i work, and even about my family. sometimes i find myself wondering about things i probably shouldn't like maybe we have crossed paths in the same city more than once. maybe he has seen me and didn't recognize me or maybe he did and walked past.

sometimes when i go out especially to nearby cafes, i catch myself wondering if might hear that voice again (he once told me he sometimes sings at cafes with his friends for fun) but i hope we do meet just once to understand what that whole chapter really was.

ps: he has not deleted his reddit account but he is not active from it anymore. i don't know if he still uses it through an alt. And if you are reading this f u ck you