r/nepalicheli

A few days ago, I came across a subreddit called R/ NepaliMoms. I genuinely thought it was a community created by Nepali mums or something wholesome like that.

Then I found out it was actually full of disgusting men sexualising Nepali mums, talking about their bodies and all kinda creepy stuff.

Seriously... what is wrong with MEN? Genuinely wtf!!!?!?

Imagine existing just to objectify women who are literally someone's mother. Absolutely pathetic.

One of my young cousin told me about her plans about starting a business similar to it. But i feel like it’s oversaturated. Every other reel i see similar content/business about such products. Shud i encourage her to start it sooner???

Ohh and are you guys really buying from prasuna clothing?? Hella expensive for a cloth the size of a handkerchief.

It's hard to talk to my dad

He cares for me a lot but kinda stoic ( He is a retired army official)

Malai ghar ma kam garaunu hunna , sabai puraidinu huncha ra j banye tehi garnu ta huncha.

Uha ma prati ramro ta hunu huncha tara I can't talk to him at all.

He is very negative about others and to me during career and education related talks( tehi bhara ma ta sakesamma yo kura gardina)

My friends family opened a buisness

And I told him that " dokan kasto ramro dekeko hai, hajur lai kasto layo".

Uhalay kastari bhanu bha " suru suru ma testai ho, pachi ghinlagdo hudai jancha".

Bhanye ki investment dherai lagetho, ramro tham ma bayera.

Reply dinu huncha " furti lagako hola ni, kaha tetro parcha.".ani khai euta ramro kura bhanu bayena

Kina ho aru lai testo bhanj

Khai k sochnu hudo raicha afulai.

Mero sathi ko mami baba lay kati maya garnu huncha malai, har ek event ma bolaunu huncha ani uhalay testo supporting manche lai dhari testo banu bha.

Jhan aru lai kasto bhanu huncha.

Uha ko soch dekera ekchin ta lastai ghin lagcha

Malai yesto negative manche man pardaina tara ahilay its just me and him at home ( mom in another province for work . Sister is aboard).

Is there anything I can do.? I don't want to be distant to him because he loves me and I love him too but when I talk, when things get deeper. I get so disgusted at some of his conversations

Hey girlies so I wanted to try pilates. I usually don't work out I just complete tyei 10k steps daily. I've never been to gym ...khai never felt like joining a gym so pilates join hum socheko.

If kasaile try garnu vayeko xa vane please tell me how's the experience.

Ani approx kati lagxa ni vandim na.

So I am in my early 30’s and I am a queer woman. I have passed all those confusion phase, came out to my friends and in completely different place. I feel a lot of people out there are struggling with their sexuality. If you have any confusions, want to share them you can comment below or you can connect with me on dm. I can open to help anyone as long as it relates with what you are going through.

If you are straight but just wants to ask things then go ahead.

LMAOAOA There this mero dai ko sathi hai i see him like one a year ani total ma 3choti dekhe hola
Hes lowk mero type pani ani handome nei xa
Garne chei k cuz like i didnt really talk w him haina and he probably sees me as a sister
Just a crush ho haina aaile ko lagi but HES KASTO MY TYPEEE KKK OMDDD
Need that

Hi girls, So I wanna learn makeup properly! Like Mainly Korean Aesthetic ani mero face lai suit huni type! Idk kun makeup studio is good for this! Also i dont have makeup stuffs! And I am 0 at it!

So please recommend Kathmandu tira ko Place!! Ali affordable!

I am trying or let's say forcing myself to be strong , but the challenges by life , people around me and their behaviour results emotional breakdown . And i can't handle it or can't control it too. Also i had gone through recent breakup too which is making my life worst . Idk what to do , i try to ignore people at least as i can but nothing works. If any problem occurs i am all left alone idk what's with my life . I wonder if my life is like this forever or will universe have any good plans for me

A little backstory, I am in a relationship since past 2.5 yrs. And it's not the best one yet we've managed to understand e/o and try to give our best in terms of time, care, attention and love. But we're both very career centric and he is very much focused in career than I am.

And there have been many things due to which I feel like I don't seem to be able to open up to him like I used to and when I try to he isn't available lately. This has got me to overthink like helllll. I don't even know now if he is in it for the timebeing or he has thoughts of maariage yestai sochda sochda now I am in a different lane of my mind. And he doesn't even know that these thing are going in my head neither does he have that much time rn for me to express it all to him.

So now what I am feeling is why are we actually in a relationship like this? Like am I in love or just too afraid to lose him or maybe I am afraid that I will fear love in future if we dont end up together, or maybe I think I won't ever feel for someonelike I do for him so I can't leave him or still is it love what is this I am in such a mess of thoughts.

Does your partner knows that you use Reddit? I mean we get a lot of messages from creeps if they know we are a female, I have turned off my messages for few months and even the username that follows me are disgusting.

My husband knew about Reddit because I was dumb to tell him I met a guy from Reddit, now he thinks Reddit is a dating app and he doesn’t want me to use it. But you get to know about things here and I am probably addicted to using Reddit so I have kept it in hidden apps. Yesterday I almost got caught, it’s not like I have something that would upset my husband but he has trust issues and wouldn’t believe that I don’t talk to anybody here. I guess it’s time to say goodbye to Reddit or not.

I have a genuine question: after marriage, is it fair to talk to your mom about your personal life and family issues?
I’m not talking about private husband-wife matters or sharing things that should remain confidential between spouses. I mean things that directly involve you, how you’re being treated, how you’re feeling, conflicts that affect you, or situations where you need support.

Personally, I believe every daughter should be transparent with her parents about how she is being treated by her husband and in-laws. My view is that if something doesn’t involve you, it’s not your story to tell. But if it involves you, your parents have a right to know, and you have a right to seek support from them.

Growing up, I shared almost everything with my mom; relationships, breakups, problems, achievements, all of it. She has always supported me, and I’m grateful for that. I don’t really have close friends I trust deeply, so she has always been my main support system. Sometimes I would rather talk to my mom than anyone else.

After I got married, my MIL told me that whatever happens in the family should stay within the family and that I shouldn’t tell my parents anything. Her view was that if I’m upset or depressed, nobody outside the family should know. She said she would make sure I was happy and secure.

The problem is that life doesn’t work that way. Even if she treats me well, she can’t always protect me from everyone else or solve every problem I might face. Having support outside the household matters.

When I talk to my mom, I’m not giving her a play-by-play of every family issue or trying to create drama. Sometimes it’s just small things, someone said something that upset me, or I need to vent. My mom is actually the type of person who believes people should maintain peace and harmony in the family. At the same time, she doesn’t tolerate unfair treatment. I trust that she won’t interfere unnecessarily, but she will listen, support me, and help me think clearly.

What I don’t understand is why some in-laws expect daughters-in-law to stop sharing things with their parents after marriage. If my MIL’s own daughter was struggling, would she want her to stay silent and keep everything to herself? I genuinely wonder.

Am I wrong for thinking that marriage shouldn’t mean losing your parents as a support system?

hi everyone, i hope everyone had a good day :))

so i am currently talking to a guy(very initial stage for me but he has shown interest and i enjoy the conversation too), i find myself being ekdaaaaam selective of every thing he says.
this very habit has made me lose interest in people before and was wondering how common it is?

I'm a very basic t-shirt and jeans kind of girl

But i recently bought a halter neck and backless jumpsuit which is way out of my comfort zone and i need something to wear underneath

I bought a byebra size L ( as it classified as 36-40) and I'm size 36 but the cup feels odd maybe because phailo choti use garera ho ki but the straps are like i can't trust that stickness like it feels like it will drop if i got active like rushing in works and type of things

And i genuinely need to hear the reviews like is this how it feels or am i just overreacting it

If anyone can help me with their experience with bye bra by girls select nepal, I'd really appreciate that

Please help girlsssss😭

as the title suggests, drop the names of therapists you would recommend genuinely nai <3. price range is 1500 samma maybe. thankyouu

I took really tiny water bottle to my college amd i joked to my so called friend saying my bottle fits in my pocket and that friend tells me you also fit in my pocket. I sad 'huh' and she repeats the same thing. Then i was like is she for real. I was like is she really saying it. Then she also tells me you are like a bamboo.

My another friend tries to defend me saying i dont look like that and i look good and that friend insists on saying I'm too thin. And also tells my another friend to imagine me in the skinny jeans as if i wasn't there.

We were just gossiping and bonding and she says sth hurtful like that. I tried to act as if I was unbothered. And i was making jokes instead.

But it hurts like bullet.

I just let sth like that happen to me. I must have confronted her not to bodyshame me but i acted as if it didn't trouble me. I was done someone treating me like a shit and i still let that happen to myself.

I didn't wanted the mood to be gloomy between us as we just bonded and i hated beef with anybody and i didn't wanted to make a big deal out of it infront of others and i know how much of a big deal it is for me personally. If i made a big deal out of it,people will know I'm too insecure of my body.

I had always been insecure of how skinny and curveless i am. It had always affected my confidence and made me hate myself.

I feel so much more insecure now. I dont know what to do anymore .

And yeah when we were walking home together she said that i walked too fast and i walk really manly.

Well i think she was just jealous and she was just projecting her insecurities into me as she told me she can't walk without her jacket on as she's curvaceous.

Again i think i deserved every word she said if I couldn't even defend myself. Next time she says sth like that i will cut off from her.