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My mom has been slut shaming me since the I was child I only ever heard her calling me rand*.kahile Ghar ni aaunu hunna thiyo jahile bahira. Baba was never there for me cuz he was in abroad at that time Ani aaba baba return aayesi I thought Mero mommy sidhrinxa hola tarw nai aaja ni malie malie bahira Jani kura garyo Vani malie kta sita sutna gais vanxa mind you ma aahile samma kunai kta sita relation ma ni basya xoina. Na Mero history xa kunai Mero study ni thik thikai xa. Ma aama sita ni rmro sita bolxu baba le Mero stand naii linu hunna. Ma morna manlagxa time time ma tarw ma sita himmat nai aauna life end garna lai.aaba job khojerw Ghar bata bhavdim jasto vaiskyo jahile ko slut shaming Bata bachna

Periods ko date najik aauda white discharge hunu is common ani it feels like periods bhako but mero chai bholi periods start huncha bhane aja i get brownish discharge sometimes that too in usual amount.
Is it normal or should i he concerned??

Edit: White discharge during ovulation ani brown discharge towards the end of periods is normal that ik.

I am really sorry to infiltrate woman’s only sub but i am really confused about what to gift my girlfriend for her birthday she really wanted a coach bag for years now but i think this time her best friend is giving her that as a gift so i am really confused on what to gift her . Can you dd baini please help me out 🫠

*Padhe lekheko hunu paryo (Degree gareko).
*Ramri hunu paryo.
*Job garne ra kamaune hunu paryo.
*Ghar ko kaam sabai garna jannu paryo.
*9 to 5 kaam garera, bihana khana pakayera, bhada majhera jane ani beluka aayera pani kaam garne hunu paryo.
*Sabaiko aadar sammaan garne hunu paryo.
*Saree, dhoti, ra kurta bahek aru luga nalagaune hunu paryo.😬
*Hasne ra bolne dhanga hunu paryo.
*Uthne ra basne dhanga hunu paryo.
*Sojo ra sabhya hunu paryo.
*Ramro sanskaar bhako hunu paryo.
*2-3 crore saving bhako hunu paryo so on so onnnn🥱

In my 22 years of living my mum thinks I’ve never dated and will never even in the future if she doesn’t get herself involved huhu!

It’s not like pahile gareko theena just ahile chai single life rocks ani mum thinks i will never find anyone. Ani aja she showed picture of a guy on tiktok and said message gara na uslai . I was like why would i reach out 1st . I don’t like doing that cuz boys will take u lightly for starting a convo 1st.

So i just got annoyed with her ani said k kta nai chahinxa bhanni xa rw sadhai. But I know she meant it good maybe she was afraid I would be alone later if I don’t find loml right now.

But i was a lil hurt like now i need mum’s help to make men fall in love with me ?

So basically I'm gonna marry the guy who wronged me not because I am in love with him but because they didn't compensate and that's what they only were willing to give me.

So you can check my last posts about why I want your guidance. And let me know the best ways please don't comment oh move on. No I've lost my child twice in less than 5 months. My body is weak af because of it. I really need to get my lick back. The authority will take years to punish him. I want him and his family to feel it in their bones. So please suggest to me the most insane ideas you think I should do when I start living with him. Although I'm already detached and only text him the appropriate stuff. I really need to get my lick back girls. I'll heal in hell right now I can only see him as someone who K*lled my child and destroyed my mental health.

Don't please don't say that oh move on. I have to get my lick back in order to move on. Please help me ladies.

Having baby is such a big decision and they both aren't mature enough.

I'm about to work in a news /media company ,I mean it's a well known one .I'll be there as a video representator, content creator any work that would require speaking infront of camera or could be going on the field and interacting.

It's a 6 hour job hai 11-5. And also I will be taking care of all my expenses living in ktm ,room chei 3 jana lera 16k rey rent hai ..

Ali ali travelling cost ni chaiyo, and I also I have to manage time for my study as well.

How much should I ask for?? This is my first proper job ,I mean I had work in ngo but job jasari haina ,per day pay gartheoo ...

This is my first time ,so I don't know how much to ask😅 6 hr ma ani kati chei non negotiable ho ,what are the things that I need to ask before and confirm about it beforehand .

Katu salary magnu??

Help me 😅I'm confused.

Just curious, how many of you will be interested..
Men please stay aside!

Katai ma pedo ta haina?? Sano bhannale not that 15-16 barsa ko but ma bhanda sano. I mean im in my late 20's so tei 24-25 barsa ko katti respectful chan genz haru mero circle ko hai aafno age ko ta herdai riss uthda chan j paye tei bolchan😭

I’ve dated two guys in my life and one experience completely changed the way I look at relationships.

I have issues with my foot, and it’s something I’ve always been a little insecure about. When the pain got worse, I was emotional and honestly scared. In my past relationship, instead of feeling cared for, I felt judged. Small comments, mocking, and bringing up family things how he will be showing me to his family they will comment on this i need to treat myself blaming my parents not taking me to hospital blah blah

But the guy I’m dating now he is indian and he reacted in a way I’ll never forget

He took me to the hospital himself, stayed with me through the checkup, listened carefully to everything the doctors said, and kept asking if I was okay. But what really stayed with me was something small and simple.

While we were at the hospital, my leg was hurting badly. He went to the pharmacy himself, bought lotion, sat beside me, and gently massaged my leg to help with the pain. Nobody asked him to do it. He just did it naturally, like taking care of me

Idk how this both people are so different because of country differences or k ho idk but it made me realize ki nobody should settle for less and bound themselves with toxic situations

Idk why situations is so different here in my life may be nepal society more conservative and vulnerable ho ki more patriarchy ho ki k ho manche ko personality ho but kasto genuinely khusi lagxa empathy bhako manche first time nai dekhe sayed life ma 🫶🏻

Girls, does anyone know a women-only gym in Pokhara city? My body is neither fat nor slim, it's in between, like skinny fat and kamjor ni atti hune. I know my body has potential to be strong and look good too but I don't have control over my diet and workouts so I want to join a gym but I am also really insecure I don't want others to look at me specially men naramro najar le matra vaneko hoina just men ko waripori I don't feel comfortable, so I want to join a gym with women cause it will be easier to talk to them. So if anyone knows if there is, let me know, please.

I have budget of 5k and have been looking for citrusy, fresh fruity smell aaune also long lasting perfume, mostly esto body splash ma matra aaudo raicha but i want it to be long lasting so any kind of fruity smelling perfume, middle eastern perfume any good recommendations are appreciated.

so please if you like vanilla or chocolate ko smell do not even bother(no offense) kina Vani vanilla type Wala is exactly what I'm not searching for. sab vanilla man parne haru lai euta certain type ko smell man pardo raicha which ive noticed. so wottagirl ko tuscan green ani mandarin twist type ko fruity smell long lasting tara sasto ma kunai vaye pls recon me💔

i apply the same "beauty with brain" stereotype in reverse. its a small way of pointing out how silly that label sounds when you flip it.

Hi girlies, I need recommendations for good tarot readers in Nepal. I have a few questions I want to ask but I don't want to get scammed too. If you've tried any, please drop their handle and your experience.

Hello, I am a man in mid 20s and most of my cousins and extended relatives of similar or younger age are already married. Every one of them did a love marriage albeit within the same caste. My father was very pushy about me marrying early and having a family of my own. But my mother was willing to let us complete study and be mature before we marry. I knew they will pressure me to marry. They keep asking if i have a gf or i like someone. If not they will step up arrange marriage for me.

I didnt want to do arrange marriage and i knew pressure will be there from my parents so these past years i tried damn hard to get in a relationship with someone. I approached girls. Talked to them. I flirted. Became more aggressive, talkative, etc. i am an introvert but i tried and didn’t succeed at all. So, i have no option but to do arranged marriage. But now, i am feeling like a loser. I am unable to get girl for myself.

In my conversation with girls in the past, most of them told me they hate having proposal for AM because they know the guy is a loser because he is taking parents help to get girls. And such losers deserve to be alone. And they have some serious flaw because they couldn’t even get a single girl to be with them. I am increasingly feeling anxious thinking about it.

I have no gf to marry. My parents are forcing me to. So most likely AM. I think i will be judged by my future wife and looked down upon by her. What if she thinks i am a loser and do not respect me? What if she thinks i have some serious personality flaw?

I would like the thoughts and opinions of cheli in this matter? Am i a loser for doing AM? Am I a loser for not getting gf to marry? How do i deal with my future wife if she thinks im some weirdo without any game? How do i assure i am perfectly ok personality and social skills wise and its just women seems to have no romantic interest in me? Yes, i am not a tall handsome hunk. But I think i am pretty average. So, please help me get clarity! Thank you!

I never cheated on him. But eventually, he left me. After that, my family started looking for someone for me marry even though I wasn't ready, I began talking to one of those As soon as I told him this, he came back in my life. I gave him another chance
Now, after three years, he betrayed me again, this time with another girl. I always felt like we had ups and downs, but it never felt this huge before. I thought if I surprised him by coming home, things might be different, but as I saw his messages, I realized he was already with someone else. I feel completely broken I haven't been able to sleep for days. Ijust needed to get this all out. Right now, l am all alone. I have no friends with me I never made any friends. He was the only one I concinered a friend I don't know what can I do ?

I’m currently 75kg and my goal is to reach 60kg.I’d love to hear from people who’ve managed to lose weight efficiently without harming themselves.

• What kind of diet plans worked best for you?
• Did you focus more on exercise routines or calorie tracking?
• Any tips for staying consistent and avoiding burnout?

I’d really appreciate advice from girls who’ve gone through this journey, especially if you’ve managed to balance health and speed. Thanks in advance!

Ani bust size kasari ghataune.

I am sharing this because yo subreddit ma girls haru hunu hunccha so bujhnu hunchha hola bhanera I am sharing this post. It might be inappropriate or triggering to some people but I have to let it out. Ma (21F) when I was 15 got groomed by a 23 year old. Tyo manche lied to me about his age and got together with me and then later when I stopped talking to him he uploaded hamro “stuffs” online. Aaile samma ni circulate bhairaheko chha in whatever websites,telegram,WhatsApp groups and it hurts me everyday. Maile already cyber bureau ma gayera case file garisake but enough proof chhaina ki he was the one who uploaded it because apparently usko excuse was he lost his phone and that’s how it got leaked. 3 years+ bhaisakyo mero mental health decline bhako and whenever I try to move on and forget this incident ek na arko way bata malai pachhyaudai aaucha. Asti bharkhar one of my good friends sent me ss tyo incident related and asked if it was me and I was shocked and every progress I made came crashing down. I don’t blame her kina ki she was looking out for me and I am grateful to have her. After my parents found out I got blamed and beaten by my father. In their eyes I had no guilt and everything was my fault and I do agree I should’ve said no I should’ve made better choices and I have accepted my mistakes. I have no one by my side ekklo chhu na yo kura kasailai bhanna sakchu na ta aafai kei garna sakchu. I wake up everyday expecting everything to be nothing but just a bad dream but sadly I have to face the reality. Kaile kai bhagwan sanga ridiculous wish magirako hunchu to make me time travel to that particular day and stop myself from meeting that person. I hope no girl ever has to go through what I went through. Please be careful about who you trust. I’ve lost my will to live and build a future. K socheko thiye life k bhaidiyo.. maile mero galti haru manisake I take all the blame for everything so I hope life becomes a little gentle towards me…