Maturing is realized Jules is not a good person
Jules has shown thousands of times in the series how she cares more about her own feelings even knowing that she will hurt someone close just like a narcissistic person and a see people saying she is just confident and just want to be "happy" or "feel happy" but let me explain the difference:
High self-esteem vs. Narcissism (simple summary👈🏻)
High self-esteem 👈🏻
• A person likes and respects themselves
•They recognize their strengths and weaknesses (things jules don't do)
•They respect and value other people! ( Something that Jules doesn't do, by the way, she cheated on Rue several times with her own friend, lied to her several times and uses and STILL uses Rue's feelings for herself and not necessarily because Jules "loves" Rue)
•They don’t need to put others down to feel good!
Narcissism 👈🏻
•A person feels superior to others
•They constantly seek admiration and attention ( Something that as said before Jules does a lot, it's like Rue said very correctly "you don't love, you like to feel loved")
•They often lack empathy for other people
•They may manipulate or belittle others ( Thing Jules sstill does)