I want to learn and practice driving in Vellore and need recommendations for spots where I can dot it. I think like large plots or grounds or areas with less vehicle movements would be apt. I will be accompanied by someone who will teach and assist me with the driving.
I am a 29 yo Gay man and I only started having sex at 25 as I was scared and deep in the closet. Started as a vers top, as I was naturally drawn to 🍑 more than 🍆. Except nobody told me my foreskin not retracting was actually a problem. I only figured out I had phimosis because other guys pointed it out. So I never had a good experience and have never topped a guy.
Then one night, I met a guy who just... topped me out of nowhere. And it was honestly great lol. Settled into being a bottom or side and for a while things were actually going well.
Then I got diagnosed with Ulcerative Colitis, which basically lead me to having dysentery at one point. Bottoming became impossible, flares and sensitivity made it completely off the table for a year almost. Went back to trying to top, tried working around the phimosis... and just couldn't perform. By then I realized that I probably had development Erectile dysfunction too.
Things stabilised a bit so I slowly started bottoming again, but god forbid I have a decent sex life, I developed IBS now, which has made bottoming difficult all over again.
It feels like I am fighting my own body just to have a sex life. Every time something clicks, something else breaks down. The one thing I good thing about being gay in this homophobic place was the sex and the intimacy, but even that seems elusive now.
Honestly sometimes I wish I was straight. At least that would've been simpler. Just needed to get this out 😮💨