u/bibitchsmoltits

I haven’t posted on here before but it feels like the best sub to post this on!

basically I could use some reassurance right now: what are the odds that I’ve seen the same guy, in different shops, a few times over the past couple months?

I’m hoping it’s just a coincidence but I can’t say a part of me isn’t concerned otherwise.

more context: I don’t go out much. I live in a town, not a city. I was already side eyeing him the first time I saw him because I kept bumping into him in a shop & it felt weird. I saw him again in another shop a while back which was weird enough, but I just saw him in a different shop again & I can’t say it didn’t freak me out. I do have CPTSD & I’m also painfully aware of the reality of the world (rising misogny, the prevalence of the manosphere, VAWG & global femicide), so I’m hoping I’m just being hypervigilant. It’s just weird because I don’t recall ever experiencing this with a stranger before.

any reassurance or anything would be greatly appreciated, thanks 💖