u/bkln69

Several months ago I began infusion treatment. I had 6 sessions over 8 weeks. I then had two more sessions a couple months later. It’s difficult to quantify any positive effects from the treatment. (the sessions themselves were otherworldly, in a strange but good way).
I can say that I’m doing “better” than before treatment but that could have more to do with now having a stable job, and pushing myself to be around people more.
I’ve been taking an SSRI for years and I’m wondering if that could be getting in the way of the ketamine’s ability to assist in mood improvement (or my ability to actually FEEL any improvement.)
Anybody have experience with this? Thanks.

Looking for simple spending tracker app. I don't need ability to make spreadsheets (I mean, if the app will make them for me that could be cool) or anything fancy. I just need to track my spending in real-time (the groceries I just bought, the subway ride I'll take later, the dollar I give to homeless person etc...). Any suggestions? Thanks!

I work for a popular high-end restaurant on the events team. We have a huge space opposite the restaurant with multiple private dining rooms, beautiful events lounge/bar, and we’re busy (multiple events daily anywhere from 2ppl to 275ppl) and service is very high touch.

Our head chef is aggressive, (and passive/aggressive!) and disrespectful and it’s become a real bummer to work with him (bummer is understatement.) Beyond the stereotypical “chef” persona stuff(control-freak, loud, tough-guy acting, disciplinarian) he’s petty and unable to admit when HIS kitchen makes mistakes. He tends to blame FOH for anything that goes wrong. He’s thrown tantrums (and literally threw a plate recently). He’s a Jekyll and Hyde in that he’ll want to joke around and be buddy-buddy at times. It’s awkward.

I understand the demands of a chef, I do. So please don’t tell me about the long hours, shitty conditions, not great pay, the pressure of putting out a great product, having to manage people…I get that, but can we please stop using rationalizing their shit behavior? Enough of the arrogance already.

I find myself walking on eggshells when dealing with him (I’m often asked to expo food) and I’m still getting shit on.

I was to a point last night where I wanted to rip him apart verbally. Instead, I asked a manager if we could have a sit down with him to air my feelings. Hoping that happens today.

I try not to take things personally but I get triggered by this guy’s aggressive pettiness.

Anyone out there relate? How do you all deal?

I received papers that a lawsuit has been filed against me in Kings County (Brooklyn, NYC) by Midland Credit Management. There isn't a date to show up in court; it just states that I must "file an answer" at court clerk's office. So, I need to show up to clerk's office but beyond that what can I expect? I currently don't have the money to pay in full and I don't want to risk having wages garnished or bank account raided. Has anyone been through this and can provide some info on what I can expect and some guidance on how best to deal with this? Thanks!