u/bkyass

Qualities such as empathy, affection, compassion, love, trust, and honesty are innate traits; while some may view them as weaknesses, this is merely because they perceive them with their eyes rather than with their hearts and minds.

Being single—or experiencing solitude—is simply a journey that helps one regain the ability to see with the heart and mind, rather than relying entirely on the eyes. During this journey, one begins to discover a new world and new people; singleness is not an end in itself, but rather a journey that concludes by opening the door to another, far deeper journey.

The point of view is necessarily gonna affect the definition of celibacy.

From my experience, celibacy is just a way that gives me time and the freedom to look inside myself. To really look how i think, feel and react. Celibacy is not a goal. It's a journey that ends at a given time, just to begin an other journey, with more confidence and inner freedom.

Focus on the journey; the goal is merely its inevitable outcome.Plan for it. Start with small steps. Be flexible. Make changes, deletions, and additions along the way. Be kind and enjoy your trip.

Never forget: breathe calmly and exclusively through the nose.🙏✌️

I have thoughts, but I am not those thoughts.

I have a body, but I am not that body.

I have money, but I am not the money.

I have a car, but I am not the car.

I am the owner; I am not the thing owned.

Therefore, I transcend all these material things. I am the one who controls them; we are the ones who control them, not the other way around.

We are pure consciousness.

لديّ أفكار، لكنني لستُ تلك الأفكار.

لديّ جسد، لكنني لستُ ذلك الجسد.

لديّ مال، لكنني لستُ ذلك المال.

لديّ سيارة، لكنني لستُ تلك السيارة.

أنا المالك؛ ولستُ الشيء المملوك.

لذا، فأنا أسمو فوق كل هذه الأشياء المادية. أنا من يتحكم بها؛ نحن من نتحكم بها، وليس العكس.

نحن وعيٌ محض.