u/blahhhhhbo

D.day was about a week ago 3 weeks ago I had found messages and he was adamant it was only messages and he would stop he started going to therapy at that point but was still adamant it was only messaged then 2 weeks later I found really old messages so I kept pushing and he admitted he’d seen then before me and kept seeing them because his needs weren’t met (bj) he’s now going to therapy and AA. We have been together 1.8 years and living together. He’s telling me to give him one last shot that he can fix this. He’s admitted to 3-4 regulars 10-12 encounters but says he’s not sure. Is this too far gone?