u/blasianFMA

Hello MODS of r/hapas this post isn't meant to proselytize members in this sub. I am not attempting to steal folks away from this space. Instead, because of the CONSTANT Wasian discourse going on with social media, this space has become very compromised for the time being. I just scrolled and it's NOTHING but "Wasian" discourse. Those of us who are not Wasian, who have existed in this sub already having to deal with White/Asian mixed folks constantly centering their experience as "the mixed experience" need a space where we can avoid precisely what is going on in here right now.

I hope you understand this. So Blasians, we currently have r/BlasiansandBeyond/ by us, for us.

I've been in this sub for YEARS and every so often it's the same thing regarding white men, then the comments from people in this sub, who we don't know are Asian or not....

The recent post about "Non Asians why are you here" made extremely valid points. The comments were, and continue to be, insane. People saying they're ok with fetishization? People saying "wtf is wrong with you, you complain that nobody wants to fuck you and then talk shit about the white men who do??"

It's MAY FIRST, the FIRST day of AAPHI Heritage Month in the US, and I am demanding here and now that the mods make a STICKIED POST AT THE HEAD OF THIS SUB laying out the rules of engagement for THIS SUB, WHO this sub is for, WHAT is allowed, what IS NOT allowed; and SOME FORM of self ID, even if it's an honor system.

I'm TIRED of seeing posts where Gaysians are being forthcoming about their TRAUMATIC experiences, and then HELLA white men come in saying "well I'm married to a gaysian" -- this space is NOT FOR YOU.