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Hi! I’m a skinny 27-year-old Asian twink bottom (175cm, 55kg) planning to solo travel Europe (will fly out of Warsaw Poland probably) in the next couple months. I’ve had a bit of a rough time finding hookups on apps. Mexico City was a ghost town for me, and even in places like Amsterdam, Vienna, and Helsinki, I’ve only had a few encounters and one of the hookups in Helsinki was with another Asian guy that was living there for work.

I’m curious: Where in Europe are Asian twink bottoms most popular or have the easiest time finding hookups?

I'm mostly into other twinks or jocks, younger or older and generally not too out of shape and I'll be turned on. Threesomes are also good for me too so I'm ok with finding couples as well.

Any cities, apps, or tips you’d recommend? I’m open to suggestions beyond what I have planned in Warsaw if the vibe is better elsewhere.

Thanks in advance for any advice or personal experiences!

Hi all, I’m intrested in learning Korean and was wondering if there are some native speakers over here I can learn with… I’m proficient in English and French

Im trying to find subreddits and/or places online that I can chat/connect with gay guys from Asia but that isn’t filled with NSFW pics or just fetishising. I don’t have solely an interest in guys from Asian cultures but recently I had two experiences with guys from Asian countries and I really liked their perspective and how they were. Massive generalisation I know! Sorry! but i come from a European country where I never meet guys from these backgrounds and I really enjoyed the cultural exchange. Any advice would be great! I’m in my 30s in France.

Hi everyone. I’m a foreign student living in China, and recently I started using Chinese dating apps to meet people and make new connections.

I’m still figuring things out, and honestly, I have mixed feelings about it.

I’ve noticed that some people on dating apps are mainly looking for something sexual, while I’m more interested in getting to know someone first and possibly building a meaningful relationship. I’m not against dating or intimacy, but I don’t want every conversation to immediately become sexual.

Another thing I’m worried about is privacy. I’m foreign, and I live in a community where there are many Chinese students and people around me. I don’t want people I know to recognize me on a dating app or accidentally discover something personal about me before I’m ready to talk about it.

For Chinese people who use dating apps:

* How do you normally start a conversation with someone you don’t know?
* Is it normal to ask for photos early in the conversation?
* How can I tell if someone is genuinely interested in getting to know me or only looking for sex?
* Do Chinese guys usually prefer chatting for a while before meeting, or meeting quickly?
* What are some things foreigners often misunderstand about Chinese dating culture?
* How do you protect your privacy when using dating apps?
* If you meet someone from the same city or social circle, how do you handle the possibility of being recognized?

I’d especially appreciate answers from Chinese people who have experience with dating apps and from foreigners who have dated in China.

I’m not looking for stereotypes or judgments. I’m genuinely trying to understand how dating and privacy work here and how to approach people respectfully.

Thanks.

I’ll be visiting Tokyo in october and I’m thinking about checking-out some cruising spots like body breath and 24 kaikan. Is it possibile to get in if you have tattoos? Does anyone know where they’re allowed?

Hello - I am a southeast asian who went to lab.oratory in Berlin yday. What struck me the most was how people tend to gravitate towards either latin/white looking men, while most asians I saw there (there were hot btw) and me - did not get much action. I feel like we look too "young" for them- I even was asked by security how old I was!

Do you also feel the same for asians living in europe? even in Germany where its multi cultural? Like the more white passing you are (meaning you are tall, looks more white), the more (sex) traction you get? Is it like this in the US too? Just curious if anyone shares the same sentiment

Hello, my fellow asians. Wondering if it's worth considering Norway for travels or migration if I'm a top looking for fun or LTR. I heard Norwegians are rather cold and won't date or befriend migrants. I'm not looking to date or marry only locals or white guys BUT are local gaysians more open or are they strictly only white guys chasers?
Would be nice to hear from both local and foreign gaysians or migrants. Honest reviews from non asians from Norway are also welcome. The geography I'm most interested in includes but not limited to Oslo, Trondheim, Bergen, Stavanger, Tromse