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Some Asian men are horrendously rude about this to the point where I don’t even want to speak with Asian men anymore and this hurts me so much Cus WE ARE HOT..

But bigotry is not sexy.

casual or upfront anti black racism is just widely accepted and often (in my particular space) nobody calls this out or worse they tell me I’m sensitive (yet will also be complaining about guys saying no Asians)

Unfortunately I will not share the comments I receive because simply quoting them probably would get me banned.

I didn’t want to post this and I waited an entire year just to see how common it was.. needless to say it happened a lot more then I think is reasonable.

Also “I only want the Asian” or “Asian+” makes me not into you maybe that’s an unpopular opinion but I think less of guys who aren’t open minded.

Anyone else in an interracial relationship and have noticed mistreatment of one or both of you?

Hey! I’m heading to Bangkok solo around September 4 and honestly want to enjoy the gay scene while I’m there 😅 Would love recommendations from people who know the city well.

Looking for:
Best gay clubs and bars
Good saunas/bathhouses
Fun areas to go out solo
Gogo bars
Places that are social and easy to meet people
Any parties/events happening in September
General safety tips for solo gay travelers
I’m open-minded, pretty outgoing, and down for both chaotic nightlife and chill spots. Also taking food/rooftop/bar recommendations if you have them.
Would appreciate any advice or favorite spots 🙏